and they see one another mostly on weekends, she said that he never make any advances toward her but constanly say how attractive she is, she said he like to french kiss and make out in the livingroom of his apartment but never in the bedroom. she said she feel like she being use what do you think?
2006-10-25 13:09:15 · 6 answers · asked by birdsdafly 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she were being 'used' dont you think he would make real advances and take it to the bedroom?
He sounds inexperienced.
2006-10-25 13:11:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So basically they make out in the living room but not the bedroom. Okay that could mean he has a secret in the bedroom or he's not ready for sex if they're just making out and not making love. Maybe he's practicing abstinence as a personal commitment or he's a born again Christian who has sworn off sex until marriage.
There are ways to tell if it's something more sneaky as in another woman.
Ask her these questions.
Does he call her but not allow her to call him?
Is there anything in the apartment that most guys wouldn't have particullarly in the bathroom?
Does he insist she call him only at certain times or not at all?
Does he insist he should call her and she shouldn't call him?
Does he insist she not come by on weekdays?
Does he live in the apartment by himself and not have sex with her but keep a supply of condoms in the bathroom?
If he has them then has the number of them decreased since she was last there?
Does he have any hickeys or bite marks on his body?
Is there anything incriminating in the wastebasket of the bathroom or trash can like used condoms or tampons or pregnancy tests?
Does he have any text messages on his cell phone or any e-mails that are suspiscous and does he often refuse to answer phone calls in your prescence?
If you can answer three of those questions yes then she's being played. If two then she's probably being played. If one she should be suspicous and wait for more clues.
2006-10-25 20:24:43 · answer #2 · answered by sprydle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think he is maybe he dosent want her 2 get ne ideas if they go in the bedroom b/c maybe he doesnt want 2 have sex now he wants 2 stay @ kissing and french kissing is alittle closer 2 sex so it helps him get closer 2 having sex w/ her if she awnts 2
2006-10-25 20:18:24 · answer #3 · answered by fuzzy_bubbles_13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she really want him, she can just tell him how bad she likes him back, and want to go over the kissing. Make it simple...
2006-10-25 20:14:42 · answer #4 · answered by Zolex1981 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he needs some encouragement...unless there is something he is hiding in his bedroom!!!
2006-10-25 20:11:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a hard one i think that she is too
2006-10-25 20:11:43 · answer #6 · answered by Hayden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋