Is it just me?

Question

There is someone that I am so in love with but I do not feel like they know to what extent my love goes. All I do is think about them. It is not possible for me to see them everyday so it is important to me that we talk every chance we get. We have not been clickin lately and it is hard for me because all I want to do is make them happy. I go crazy when I can't here the sound of their voice or be with them. It really does kill me inside. Does anybody out there feel the same about someone they love? More importantly, this is driving me insane. Is there something I can do to take my mind off of them? I feel like this is unhealthy, do you?

Answer 1

first and foremost it is unhealthy. second of all all love has its limits! let the guy do his thing, you your thing, have a girls' night out with your girl friends and let him enjoy catching up with his guys! also, my bf and i think about each other daily yet we both know that we have the relationship that keeps us together and then both have our own life! if all you do is make this guy your universe you will see no wrong that he might be doing, as well as not giving each other the space you need in a healthy relationship! if i were you i would think and worry about school and classes and grades since to me it sounds as though this guy is a huge distraction! my bf and i see each other during the week and have lunch but other that we do not have time since we are college students and are more worried about our grades! also, my bf and i made a deal on how we need good grades on all the tests in every single subject to continue to see each other-just to see that we are not big distractions and such! and if you love someone you need to make yourself happy before you can make them happy in this relationship!i think that you are not that happy otherwise why would you try to make someone else happy? if the relationship takes a lot of work it is not worth it!!!! i love my bf but not so overwheling as you love that guy! you need to back up some or else you will drive this guy away or maybe that is the reason that you two are not "clicking"! maybe you scare him by showing so affection all the time and all at once! slow down and take your time!