this guy i like is totally great but things are awkward he always sits in my seat on purpose and always asks me for things like school stuff and he touches me alot like he'll slap my *** or something i can never talk to him cause i don't know what to say what do i do
2006-10-25 13:04:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this guy is going beyond flirting, I know you like him but I would steer clear of him, he sounds like he doesn't respect you at all
2006-10-25 13:08:08 · answer #1 · answered by stephaniencurtis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey there
can i just ask how old is this guy? like, primary/elementary, high school or what?
some dude used to do that to me too - but that was in primary. he'd slap my bum and run off giggling.
but if some guy did that to me in high school, i'd kick his ****.
well, this situation really depends on how old he is, i guess. from the sounds of it, he's either
a) immature or
b) thinks you're easy
I guess if you feel uncomfortable with him slapping your bum, just the next time he does it, say to him straightout "look, can you not?"
if he continues to do so, let him know that you're serious. Whether he's immature or thinks you're easy: he shouldn't be touching you like that anyway.
if he's not a player: like someone above said: try doing something totally out of the ordinary: gimme a peck on the cheek or something. and leave it at that. if he seriously likes you, he'll take the hint and possibly ask you out. he might try talking to you a lot, but try giving him the cold shoulder and taking no notice of him. because then HE'LL be the one asking for "help with this girl at school" :)
but if you do end up going out - don't do anything you wouldn't feel comfortable doing - this guy obviously likes... physical contact a lot.
hope this helps xx
ps: if this guy's a player, that is, he has a tendency act the same way around all the girls by touching them and stuff, don't bother with him. he's a jerk.
2006-10-25 20:37:55 · answer #2 · answered by mojo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all,Him slapping your *** is totally disrespecting you and if you want to know the truth,it sounds like he looks at you like a easy score!{piece} First you say he,s always asking you for school stuff,WellHon,If he rally liked you he would be giving you school stuff and trying to help you,not take,take, and then he flirts with you to get what he wants and then smacks your *** In front of poeple,Thats showing off and him and all he,s guy friends are goffying on you behind your back because they all can tell your googly over him!Wake up and i,m not trying to be Mean!He,s using you and making you look sheap and easy at the same time,stop him!Find a man thats gona respect you and treat you the way you should be treated,Don,t settle for less,Just because this Kid,s Cute!He sounds Like A REAL JERK!Good Luck,Hollywood
2006-10-25 20:14:24 · answer #3 · answered by hollywood 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You like him, he likes you, so throw him off Gard and put your self in the drivers seat. See right now he has total control over the situation, throw him off guard, The next time he dose something extreme like grab your @#$ then turn around and with out saying one word plant one kiss on him then turn and walk away!!! Remember compose your self and what ever you do don't say any thing just let him stew over it all day and all night. Believe me he will want to talk the next day now the ball is in your court, and you have forced his cards onto the table. Good luck be smart and have fun!!!
2006-10-25 20:12:15 · answer #4 · answered by matt v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he likes you. Tell him he needs to respect you. He can respect you and like you. Respect you enough not to slap your body parts or touch you. Tell him if he was man enough and respectful enough to ask a real lady out, "you", he would ask you out to a soda after school, and wouldn't be touching you. A real man talks and listens to a girl and shows interests in things to see if they have anything in common. Real Men do not paw on women. Tell him if he can't treat you like a lady, to go to the library and look it up then come back and give it another try.
2006-10-25 21:57:49 · answer #5 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grab His ***, Hard!, Pinch it till it hurts and just grin. Even better if ya happen to catch a piece of his chicken bag! owww
2006-10-25 20:06:44 · answer #6 · answered by fantasticopinionsfree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to him about little things like how his week is going or what kind of sports he's into or something. those little convos will soon spark into bigger convos, and maybe you'll build a relationship
2006-10-25 20:07:57 · answer #7 · answered by happy311 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds to sexual and he is probeley a player go for a guy that won't smack your *** all the time.
2006-10-25 20:07:19 · answer #8 · answered by karrahbissett11 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you like him, for God's sake, let him no. I'm a guy and I don't get hints. Tell him, or be cute or something. It isn't that hard.
2006-10-25 20:07:44 · answer #9 · answered by burnquist11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just laugh at him when he does this stuff do the same thing back, but don't lett him smack your butt, thats just degrading.
2006-10-25 20:07:20 · answer #10 · answered by 1st time prego 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋