im 17 and ive been going out with my boyfriend for about 2 weeks now and we havnt properly kissed yet.. he was my best mate for a while before and it just feels weird. i dont no if this is because i have problems with intimacy or whether its him i feel strange with.. can someone please give me advice im just so confused..
2006-10-25 12:58:38 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dear Mandy,
I am sure that you ahve heard that dating a good friend is never a good idea. And this is very true. I as guessing but i am sure that you both felt like eachother was just a really good freind but after yo usee so much of a person and you love hanging out with them yo uwonder if there could be something more there so you decide to explore that feeling. Of you are having a hard time being intament with him maybe you both can sit down and talk about it or maybe it is best just to be friends.
2006-10-25 13:03:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 weeks is not very long. Don't rush it. I would just recommend you get to continue to know each other and grow as a couple. You still have a lot to learn about each other individually and together as a couple. Don't focus on the kissing. Focus on what is important to the both of you. As you grow more comfortable and see if you are compatible as a couple, you will begin to see if the kissing will fall in to place. Enjoy each other.
2006-10-25 13:03:11 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a friend like that but we went further. right in the middle of doing it we looked at each other and started laughing. we stopped both expressed that it was weird, laughed some more and never spoke of it again. we were friends for a very long time so it did not effect us in a bad way at all. soooo it could be that you're just meant to be buds. the odds are 50/50 it seems.
2006-10-25 13:03:57 · answer #3 · answered by The Key Master 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont rush into anything. if you were best friends at one point than you should feel more comfortable with him than anyone else. give it time. this is new for the both of you. youre just thinking too much. eventually youre gonna find yourself trapped in a corner asking all these questions to yourself. it will work out. just take things one step at a time.. if you like him.. dont scare him by trying to rush things.
2006-10-25 13:05:24 · answer #4 · answered by prettiness 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it may be that you are finding it weird as you are still in the transition phase from him being a friend that is a boy to actually being your boyfriend after all it has only been two weeks talk to him about it he may feel the same way!
2006-10-25 13:01:57 · answer #5 · answered by nealeyus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to kiss each other badly, then close your eyes and lock it up, but they way you're referring to, I think you should tell him that you want to be friends with each other for a while and see what's going to happen in the future of your lives. There's my advice.
2006-10-25 13:01:39 · answer #6 · answered by idkmybffrose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, and take a breath.
How do you feel about him?
If you feel romantically, keep exploring it, and try taking the lead with the kissing.
If you don't feel romantically, look at easing back into the friendship.
2006-10-25 13:01:42 · answer #7 · answered by a_blue_grey_mist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is him. If you loved him your heart would pitter patter when around him and you would kiss him with great passion. He is probably good man, just not man that is right for you. Tell him soon. Is cruel to lead on someone who loves you when you do not have love back for him.
2006-10-25 13:01:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its okay to feel weird i did that with my boyfriend for 3 weeks then we kissed for real so my point is its ok
2006-10-25 13:02:36 · answer #9 · answered by ♥kristin♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres lots of different reasons why we kiss others...we kiss those we care about n love...the purpose for kissing is showing our love. If you feel "weird" kissing him then why are you doing it?
2006-10-25 13:08:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋