I'll be asking a friend I haven't talked to or seen for about 2 years out for coffee but I told her that I want to meet up with her to talk to her about old times. How should I approach her so that I am interested in her more then as a friend? I am relatively new to being flirtatious and I just recently gained a lot of confidence but still am unsure about how to tell her about my feelings. Should I tell her on the first time out for coffee that I like her or should I just keep asking her out and hopefully she will clue in? All help with be much appreciative.
2006-10-25 12:56:02 · 9 answers · asked by Jake 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wait until you see her. You might not like her as much as you did two years ago. If you do, though, just try to set up another get-together, this time in the evening... for a movie, say, or a concert. When outings go night-time, girls get the hint it's more serious. And if you want to be really obvious, say, "I'd like to take you to dinner." She'll get the clue. A peck on the cheek if you're not usually demonstrative would also clue her in, as would holding on just a second longer than you should when you initially hug hello/goodbye...
If she agrees to go out for dinner/a movie, and you still really like her, trying sending her flowers (even just a single rose) afterward with a, "I really enjoyed our date." message. That's unmistakeable :-), and most girls love flowers.
GOOD LUCK!
2006-10-25 13:01:09 · answer #1 · answered by lilgoat4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not say that you like her. I did that and I got the cold shoulder so kinda talk 2 her and b a lil flirtatious but not like feelin her up or nething. u shuld talk 2 her 4 about 2-3 months and then tell her, but make sure it wont ruin ur friendship.
2006-10-25 13:01:46 · answer #2 · answered by lanny193721 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever assume she knows you like her. Definitely clue her in- ask her who she's dating right now and find common ground on interests or work stuff. Touch her arm or give her a hello hug. Don't just blurt it out that you are into her either, subtlety works best, you don't want her to choke on her latte. If she's interested, you'll know....Good luck!
2006-10-25 13:03:29 · answer #3 · answered by Gotham*City*Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest trying to let her clue in at first, but if she really doesn't get it then try just telling her or sending her flowers (not roses, please- we all think it's soo annoying that guys all do that) with a card in them that tells her how you feel. Shy is good! We like shy guys much better than the loud, obnoxious, aggressive type. Express yourself! Good luck!
Amelia
2006-10-25 13:02:13 · answer #4 · answered by stratocaster lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sitting at coffee, just go with the conversation. If she responds giggling and touching i guess you have your answer.
But some girls can hide their true feelings. My advice? If you want to spend more time with her and get close, do just that. You may get closer, you may not. The answer lies in the future...
2006-10-25 13:00:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to appear to have confidence, be cool, and hip if you want to be successful. I suggest the following:
"Damn (insert name), your stupid fly! Let me pull up to your bumper and smack that monkey!"
or this line from Akon......
"Shorty I can see u aint lonely, handfull of homies n they all got cheese,
so u lookin at me now whats it gonna be just another tease far as I can see,
tryin get u up out to this club if it means spendin' a couple dubs,
throwin bout 30 stacks in the back make it rain like that cuz I'm far from a scrub,
u kno my pedigree, ex-deala use to move phetamines,
girl I spend money like it dont mean nuthin n besides I got a thing for u."
Man if she doesn't think your rockin after layin one a these on her then move on........
Peace out
2006-10-25 13:09:40 · answer #6 · answered by white_yack 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Question heading should be:
P_U_S_S_Y asking girl out. Totally clueless about dating!!?
1. Don't be a p-u-s-s-y
2. Get some confidence
3. Get a personality
4. Get a job
5. Keep the job
6. Bathe regularly
7. Brush your teeth every day
8. Be confident in approaching
9. Act like you really don't care if she's interested in you or not
2006-10-25 12:58:04 · answer #7 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
once upon a time a friend asked me the same thing.... ask her to hang out with you a few times(at lest 2 or 3) so you can get to know her again then ask her out on a real date.ask her"officially" or it will not count as a date!!!!!!!!!!!!!good luck!!!!hope that helps!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-25 13:25:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-06-21 11:28:12 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋