Shd I call her again?

Question

So Ive posted a few questions about this girl before and I kinda still have some doubts so bear with me.

Heres a short summary of what happened: Ive known this girl since 7 years ago and have not seen her for the last 4 years. I got in contact with her and flew 6000km to meet her (under the impression that I am having a vacation!) Ive seen her once so far for like 30 mins during her break as she is heavily loaded with college work. She invited me down to her workplace in the suburb where she lives. I saw her at her workplace (@ Subway) and she kinda made me a sandwich and told me that she will see me during her break. I waited for almost an hour and she text me saying that shes too busy and probably cant have a break. So i had to drive 20km back to the city. On my way back, she text me and told me she was really sorry about it and will call me in the morning and meet up on friday.

Anyways, I was wondering if its fine for me to call her up today and ask her if she is free in the evening to hang out? I dun wanna sound like Im stalking her and I dun wanna intrude into her busy life but I thought that if its possible, I would wanna spend more time with her. I wanna take it slow because I will only return to the city like 9 months later as I have to leave for work.. so that pretty much leaves a void in between.

I hell I sure hope within the next 9 months, shes not gonna get attached cos i would feel pretty crushed. Its hard to just wave off a feeling like you guys have said. Its not something where one can just snap it off his mind. So yeah.. Sigh indeed!

Answer 1

i think u shouldn't waste any more time on this girl cause obviously she doesn't have time for you and from what i can tell she probably wont maybe she likes you but doesn't have time for you it's better off if you guys just hang if any farther someone is bound to get crushed

Answer 2

Here is a girl with an agenda. She has alot of drive and wants to accomplish something at school; At college, things can sometimes happen, that throw your plans out the window. Don't take it so personal. She probably doesn't have alot of time for herself, let alone you. If you are interested you will have to go with the flow. Be glad she is focused and doing something with her life.
She is not going to run away, so relax a little and take it easy. If it is meant to happen it will.
Meet her on Friday when she has time and then you can have a great time and not be on such a strict timetable....
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