I have been having sex with one of my guy friends for the last 3 months or so. Im really not looking for a relationship and I have reapeadly told him this but now he's not buying it. It has taken me awhile to stop having emotional attachments when I sleep with uys who are not my bf and now that I dont have any feelings for him...he likes me! I dont want to stop having sex with him b/c he's the best I've ever had! What do I do b/c he is witholding sex until I make a committment
2006-10-25 12:42:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what guy witholds sex? but anyway if you really dont want him then you need to stop leading him on to believe that you do b/c like other guys he seems to not know how to take a HINT even when you yell it to him on top of a building. Im sure you can find someone with better sex skills. Guys do this kind of stuff ALLL the time but look down on women when we do it....hey you need to withold being in a relationship with HIM if he doesnt drop his draws RIGHT NOW
2006-10-25 12:46:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
TT called you a slut? What makes you a slut when this is what MEN usually do!!! So the tables have turned...find someone else or take a break for a while. You made your intentions clear from the start, unfortunately this is the type of situation where one person may develop feelings for the other, someone will get hurt.Or just continue as a guy might do, make the commitment just to get your booty call!
2006-10-25 19:50:35 · answer #2 · answered by msuzyq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else to have sex with. There are plenty of other guys who I am sure would jump at the chance, to get sex for free, with no strings attached, and no questions of commitment. Don't be selfish and keep him dangling just because the sex is good; let him go, before he gets hurt.
2006-10-25 19:44:59 · answer #3 · answered by LibraT 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hold on, you've been having sex with a guy for three months without being in a relationship with him, and now you're frustrated because he wants a relationship? Well then you're a sl*ut. No offense.
2006-10-25 19:49:36 · answer #4 · answered by Maus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just make it clear that you just want a sex relationship w/him. if he doesn't like that then you may have to make a choice to either have a relationship w/him or find a new sex buddy
2006-10-25 19:45:58 · answer #5 · answered by wonderwoman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as a dude i can tell u he cant hold it for long he WILL go crazy
but on the freakish case he dont then move on with ur life theres more to it then sex
2006-10-25 19:44:34 · answer #6 · answered by Gundead Grimm the War Dog 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow you have perposly turned yourself into a slut? why did you want to stp havng emotional attachments to people you sleep with. go back to the Moulin rouge
2006-10-25 19:47:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok, having sex is part of a relationship, your the one putting out, it should be the other way around. byeee
2006-10-25 19:46:10 · answer #8 · answered by Tessa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you are just interested in him as a F--k buddy and if he can't deal with it you'll just to look elsewhere.
2006-10-25 19:57:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should not have don it now u r in deep ****
2006-10-25 19:47:52 · answer #10 · answered by Nick 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋