a few years ago, I had an ex who wanted to call me by another womans name. apparently he, and his parents, didn't like my real name.
I found that very strange because a sh.it load of people LOVE my name. I cussed him out for that too.
would you let a man call you by another womans name, just because he didn't like yours?
2006-10-25 12:36:45 · 45 answers · asked by Red Crayon Aristocrat 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lol, no my name isn't really "Xingba". lol!
Xingba is the name of an Ancient Chinese Pirate that I adore.
people ar eso gullible! lol!
2006-10-25 12:45:36 · update #1
people dont pay attention. this guy is no longer my boyfriend, I broke up with him, 3 years ago, 3 YEARS AGO!
i just wanted to know what you guys thought.
2006-10-25 12:55:08 · update #2
ok im not a girl or a gay guy at that but to answer ur ques no he should like u for u i mean come on its just a name big deal as long as its not *tookie tookie poop poopie pant* who cares
2006-10-25 12:38:19 · answer #1 · answered by Gundead Grimm the War Dog 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Good thing you are no longer with him! How very strange - first time I have had of something like this. I think if he didn't like your name, he should've come up with a cute pet name for you, not some other woman's name. That would make me think he was cheating and being lazy about it. Hehehehee :)
2006-10-26 06:21:17 · answer #2 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not-this sounds like a very mean, controlling type of person. If your name is not acceptable tohim, there are probably many other things he will find to criticize you about as well. That just sounds crazy to me, I don't know how anybody could put up with that.
2006-10-25 12:39:24 · answer #3 · answered by orphanannie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I try to respect all parts of a person... Even their name, I think pronouncing it correctly is very important. So I wouldn't want to call you by some other name that is not your own.
2006-10-25 12:40:37 · answer #4 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, your name is important. If my name was Jane for example, Would I like to be called Mary...............I think not. I would also worry about the association of the other name too.
2006-10-25 12:39:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
H e l l NO!
I Love me and even though I do not like my name I will not change it to please another to save my life or his, as a matter of fact, Next time you see him that guy, you call him D i ck Head and tell him you like that name much better, it fits him and the way he thinks..................
2006-10-25 12:41:17 · answer #6 · answered by Lil Angel 68 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you like your name? If you like your name then never let anyone call you anything else! apparently he is treating you like an object instead of the queen you really are.
2006-10-25 12:41:01 · answer #7 · answered by shiningstarr32 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um.. No. My name is my name, he would just have to deal with it.
Besides, he doesn't have to call me by name at all, a "pet name" would be sufficient (like pumpkin or sweetie or something).
2006-10-25 12:43:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if it were hard to say, we could agree on a nickname, but not some strangers name - it would have to be mine and only for me!
2006-10-25 12:38:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could give me a nickname or something,but my name is Diamond i wouldn't want him calling me sarah or anything like that
2006-10-25 12:39:48 · answer #10 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋