im stuck between two guys my boyfriend and my best guy friend....
My boyfriend is tall 'bout 5' 10" (im 5' 7") really smart ,blonde, blue eyes, witty, can carry on a conversation, not athletic, dresses well, sweet, respectfull of my body, nerdy/geeky,but i dont see him that ofter cause neither of us are allowed to date and weve already been doing this behind our parents back for about two years
my best guy friend is 5'5" blond, blue eyes, witty, can carry on a conversation, REALLY ATHLETIC great gymnast going to the olympics soon, dresses well, sweet, HOT,respectfull of my body, but i see him alot more
my friends think i should dump my bf for my best friend but im not sure....wat do u dudes and dudetts think?
2006-10-25 12:20:19 · 12 answers · asked by Rachel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
btw im about im 15 1/2
2006-10-25 12:27:49 · update #1
the two guys are very similar in personality and im not worried about the superficial stuff i just dont want to ruin relationships and i dont want to be stuck in bad ones either
2006-10-25 12:31:48 · update #2
Go ahead & let your boyfriend go. You're already cheating in your mind, and you said you don't see him often anyway. He can find someone who is only into him and nobody else. And you can be with the person you want to be with. It's a win-win situation if you just go ahead & dump him.
2006-10-25 12:24:06 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok, if your guy friend waited until you were in a relationship to show you that he had feelings for you most likely they're superficial. For some reason guys find girls more attractive when they're already taken, and it goes both ways actually. I wouldn't ruin what you already have on someone who's suppose to be your friend. Because if he was a true friend, he would let you be happy instead of messing with your feelings.
2006-10-25 19:24:43 · answer #2 · answered by Ally S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well i have some good advice:) i have been in this situation...how much do you value your friendshop with your best friend because a realtionship whether you wanna believe it or not when it ends it will ruin your friendship...and stop listening to your friends listen to your heart you and your boyfriend dont need to be up your butt 24/7 absence makes the heart grow fond....and think about your bf is gonna be in the olympics how much time will you get to spend with him???make yourself happy noone else!!!
2006-10-25 19:25:23 · answer #3 · answered by CONFUSED 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think who ever makes you feel happy inside and out. A man who u can be yourself around. On your good and bad days. However, do not rush into the situation, think about what you should do before reacting..
2006-10-25 19:25:45 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow yor heart but think of how you will affect ur b/f.if u dump him 4 someone with looks then he will think ur shallow. i know coz my ex-ex g/f did the same thing to me.and if you think that because he's HOT then maybe you should dump ur boyfriend before you hurt him
2006-10-25 19:24:45 · answer #5 · answered by poony!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur worried about the height difference right? why are people so superficial? why would anyone allow aesthetics to get in the way of their happiness?
2006-10-25 19:27:23 · answer #6 · answered by kennyboy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're focusing too much on the way they look. Does that really matter that much? You need to look at their personalities. These guys aren't new cars that you're comparing.
2006-10-25 19:23:29 · answer #7 · answered by italia_azure 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boy friend for two years OR bestfriend.. hmm
outta curiousity how old are u for ur parents not to be allowed dating?
2006-10-25 19:23:04 · answer #8 · answered by Joktan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think maybe you should try both and see which guy u feel more comfortable around.Also which guy makes u feel better about being u.
2006-10-25 19:25:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy the attention as long as you can. Sooner or later you will suffer anyway. Good luck !!
2006-10-25 19:22:37 · answer #10 · answered by dotab 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋