How do you tell someone you like the look of them if you really don't know them (e.g. in a bar)? I'm shy about seeming too forward, or seeming like I want a girl for her body (let's face it, I wouldn't go and talk to her if I wasn't attracted to her). Really I want to know what she's really like.
2006-10-25 12:11:58 · 10 answers · asked by sarciness 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
eyes, eyes and eyes.........get some eye contact going, little glances, see what she does back. A gaze, a quick peep, looks at you too...then if that's all going on, approach her, say hi but don't say anything sleazy or too personal! if she's attracted to you too she will be flirty anyway. You could comment on her hair, or something she is wearing to start up conversation.............if it's a woman like me, she'll just be grateful someone's talking to her!! lol lol Just be yourself, good luck
2006-10-25 12:22:08 · answer #1 · answered by GalaxyGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply go with your gut feeling. If it feels right go for it, if it does not stay clear. The trouble is men use their heads when you need to use gut feeling intuition, trust it. Alternatively live a life of never knowing if the one that felt right was the one to get to know.
PS attraction is not a two way thing
2006-10-25 19:31:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find forward guys attractive, theres a difference between forward and presumptuous/arrogant. You should bite the bullet and just say your beautiful, she'll probably blush but i don't see how anyone could be offended, good luck be brave whats the worst that could happen and who cares!
2006-10-25 19:29:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first introduce urself and then say to her i have been walking to talk to u all night. tell her something about her smile or the way flipped her hair girls like to know u notice little things. but dont compliment her body right of the back than u will seam shallow and a tad sleezy ( u dont seem it).
2006-10-25 19:16:14 · answer #4 · answered by practicully_famouse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what they do in movies, just walk right up to here and sit a seat away. Then give her glances every now and then. If she's there to pick someone up, then she'll catch on. If she's creeped out by it, she'll move away. If she does nothing, offer to buy her a drink.
2006-10-25 19:15:16 · answer #5 · answered by Ally S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get one of the bar staff to find out what she's drinking and take her another one which u pay for. get them to discreetly inform her that "its from the gentleman standing/sitting over there" and just nod when she says thank u. dont be too pushy and she should come and talk to u.
good luck x
2006-10-26 06:41:33 · answer #6 · answered by Cubangirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just look at her, smile and if she returns the smile and gives little flirty looks , walk up to her and ask if you can buy her a drink.
its sooo simple, even a man could do it!!xx
2006-10-25 19:18:22 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs Chicagosgirl!! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you start with...."hi my names _____, how are you, you look stunning, i saw you here the other week, whats that perfume your wearing, it smells good, and your hair looks lovely, would you like a drink" cheesy but it works, if it's about her, you'll get her attention....girls love it...oh, keep the eye contact
2006-10-25 19:27:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm when im in a bar and feel shy.....i order another drink.
2006-10-25 19:19:00 · answer #9 · answered by Spin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get your nob out that should attract he mate
2006-10-25 19:14:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋