There is this girl I go to school with that I like. Ive known her for a while, and all her friends tell me that she really likes me too. I've even asked her friends if I was to ask her out, would she say yes? All of them said she would. The only problem is this. I normally have to do all the talking. I always have to approach her in the hallways at school, and call her on the phone. Alot of the time, she wont even return my phone calls. Is this weird? In previous relationships the girl used to always call me. I know that this girl is really shy around me, but I dont know how bad it is. What should I do? Not calling and see if she calls me? Any tips or suggestions would be greatly appreciated
2006-10-25 12:10:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you stop calling her she will think that you are not interested and be broken. Just ask her out. Speaking as a girl, there are times that you shut down in fear of saying the wrong thing. Has she had a bf be for? how has she acted with them?
I would go and ask her out. it is a date, not a life time commitment. Then on the date you can say that you were not to sure that she was interested in you because of the way she acted. that will give her an opportunity to change or explain or what not.
2006-10-25 12:16:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't suggest testing her like that. If she's as shy as you say and it sounds, she would only take that as a cue that you're not interested and in turn she may not become interested.
Perhaps she's just confused about how you feel about her because you havn't asked her out yet. She's probably heard from her friends that you're interested, but it's never really believable until you follow through.
See how she acts after you ask her out. Then you'll get to know just how open she can be, hopefully.
2006-10-25 19:14:51 · answer #2 · answered by Usual 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may really like you but, is a scared you might not like her the same way. You can always ask her out face to face. To me she seems really shy. I use to be same way when I had a crush on a guy. So try either asking her out or asking her how she feels about you, and make sure she knows u like her.
2006-10-25 19:17:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, keep calling her and talking to her, flirt around her alot more see if that makes her happy. You''ll know when is the perfect time to ask her =D
2006-10-25 19:16:32 · answer #4 · answered by Joktan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know we are confusing at time... but approach her and have a talk with her. be her friend!!! girls like that!!! that way she can open up and she will tell you what she really feels
2006-10-25 19:15:37 · answer #5 · answered by BATGIRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not weird .this girl is probably a little shy around you.she probably thinks she will say the wrong thing.but just be natural and she will be comfortable around you.
2006-10-25 19:15:29 · answer #6 · answered by Kelly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
r u sure she likes u?
2006-10-25 19:13:43 · answer #7 · answered by iamadam'sgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋