I have a problem there's this boy named C and we almost had sex but couldn't. I'm thinking should I have sex with him? I really don't want to be known as a hoe by people, but I kinda want to do it. Do you think I should or not?
2006-10-25 12:01:13 · 25 answers · asked by shante14mimi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 16 years old
2006-10-25 12:06:06 · update #1
Well be sure to be thinking about what you will tell your future husband when he asks about your past. He will never forget that you had sex with other people just because "you wanted to." That is why animals have sex. Hopefully as humans we have a little more morality and motive for sharing sex with someone other than we "wanted to." If you DO have sex with him you will continue to have sex with more and more guys (why wouldn't you? After once why stop then?) and then you will soon be known as a slutt by others (which you will be by then) and your chances of ever attracting a quality that will love you for YOU rather than for a hole in your body will be out the window. Every time you have sex with another partner your value drops lower and lower and lower and the quality of guys you will attract will drop also.
So if you EVER want to marry a quality guy who will think a lot of you and respect you, you better give this premarital sex issue some serious thought. Otherwise, what I've predicted to you WILL happen and ten years from now you will remember this warning.
2006-10-25 12:09:50 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Curious 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well you are not a hoe from just sleeping with someone. You are a hoe if you are giving yourself to multiple partners and not respecting yourself. Don't just give it up to anyone girl. You are worth way more than that. You have to remember that once you give it up you never will get it back. And think if you really want to give that person a part of you forever. Guys are going to say whatever they have to to get you to sleep with them. Make him show you he is worth it. Don't fall for the lines make him work for it hunny. I say No make him wait and if he does than maybe but he probably won't.
2006-10-25 12:07:40 · answer #2 · answered by HappyMama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wait until you are in a loving relationship and at an appropriate age (you didn't mention your age - you could be 12 for all I know!). If you do begin a sexual relationship, at any time....please use protection each and every time you have sex. I was a teenage mother and it is hard to have a life after having kids. It is also necessary to protect against std's.
2006-10-25 12:08:25 · answer #3 · answered by NICOLE S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its probably tempting but do what is best for you. See i lost my virgintiy at 15 and you will not enjoy it. You should wait until you get married, and you want to make sure its with the right person. I know i could sound like your mother right now(lol) But what they tell you sometimes is tht truth and good for you. Trust me i know. So hold out as long as you canbecause in the end it is always worthed.
2006-10-25 12:04:51 · answer #4 · answered by Brittany G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This world hasn't run out of males, has it? You're asking as if you are undecided on "eating a candy or drinking water instead"
Well, if you think you're ready to face the consequences of that, go ahead. But I'm warning you: If you value your image more than anything else, you'd better think that one over a thousand times first
2006-10-25 12:06:07 · answer #5 · answered by Grifter Heavenspike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely NOT! especially if you're young. DON'T. I don't care if you 'kinda' want to, it's stupid and not worth it. Trust me: you don't even love the guy. He'll make you cry later for sure. He's a jerk. dump him asap. Has he even told you he likes you? dude just don't do it it's not worth it u don't wanna be single and pregnant or get STDs or any crap like that. I've known people in some tight trouble don't do it with him-or anybody-right now. Don't. PLEASE!
2006-10-25 12:09:53 · answer #6 · answered by Corinne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what u feel.who cares what people think. at the end of the day, do what makes u happy. jus remember the consequences of sex before marriage. i mean, your walking on dangerous territory. the best way to have safe sex is NO sex!
2006-10-25 12:06:36 · answer #7 · answered by wizeguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that depends, how old are you? and only do it if you think that you can take the responsibilities that might be thrown at you.
OK, now we have details, you are only 16, it is tempting but i think that you should wait. there will be a whole lot of opportunities when you are older. better safe than sorry.
2006-10-25 12:06:58 · answer #8 · answered by metalchik 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all it depends on how well do u know him. cause u know all boys want is booty. so he coukd just be doin it 4 that. now if he is a good person and u felin like u really want it badd its yo choice go 4 it
2006-10-25 12:04:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe the perfect time to have sex or make love, or what ever you want to call it, is if you when you are ready...or when you fill it is right...or when you can do it and be happy. If you can do it and be happy, then you are ready.
2006-10-25 12:08:08 · answer #10 · answered by shootdadeputy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋