On tuesday down the pub i saw a lady who i had a brief thing with about 10 years ago. I would like to ask her out on a date but my problem is i can't remember her name how can i sort this out without her realising or do i just tell her this???? I realise i will be crucified for this question but i am serious about seeing her. I really am not a w*nker
2006-10-25 11:46:52 · 16 answers · asked by Boney 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Could you ask someone in the pub? If she goes there often then someone should know.
Failing that, do the whole "I know you don't i?" routine. You might not look as desperate as yo sound with that one.
2006-10-25 11:50:25 · answer #1 · answered by L D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk up to her and introduce yourself. Tell her that you think she looks great and that she looks familiar-but you can't seem to place her. Leave the rest up to her. I hope this helps! This time keep up with her! You could ask the bartender for her name! Tip the bartender and send her a drink! The bartender may even ask her what her name is!
2006-10-25 18:55:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
10 yrs is a long time. She could go either way if you ask, but maybe that is a good thing. If she understands and is nice about it great. If she gets offended well a good sign to move on.
2006-10-25 18:49:25 · answer #3 · answered by crct2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thinnk you should send her a note from someone else and say in that note, What is your name once you get that note back you will see her name ask her out and she will forget about that other guy!!! Toodles
P.S. If you don't want to do that than ask one of her friends what is her name???
2006-10-25 18:50:57 · answer #4 · answered by squeeks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she remember you??? she may have forgotten your name too. Maybe just start from scratch, approach her and get talking again. She may say, you seem familiar, umm what was your name again, you laugh and say, and yours ha ha ha!!!!!!!! etc. Why can't you remember her name?....if you had a thing, or was the 'thing' too drunk and playful or perhaps so brief it was just br.....good luck x
2006-10-25 19:29:35 · answer #5 · answered by GalaxyGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy. Bump into her at the pub again and ask one of your friends to introduce him/herself. That way she'll say her name. Easy as apple pie.
2006-10-25 19:31:26 · answer #6 · answered by John B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you're not a wanker!!
what works for me is whenyou see her at the bar again go and say hi, make conversation.
then when you ask her out give her your cell phone and ask her to enter her number so you can call her to set things up.
when she puts it in she'll add her name without you asking.
works for me everytime!
good luck.
2006-10-25 18:51:25 · answer #7 · answered by adman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has been 10 years, just be honest, and say, I am so sorry, its been 10 years since we saw each other, and I forgot your name.
2006-10-25 18:49:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask around if u seen her at a pub she prabable has a friend or to some where close ask .
2006-10-25 18:49:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could just ask her her name, or hover and hope someone says her name. Seriously, just ask her, politely... Good Luck!!
2006-10-25 18:50:31 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋