my ex boyfriend broke up with me because i woulden't have sex with him at age 13. was i right to say no.
2006-10-25 11:32:33 · 16 answers · asked by girley_hot_n_lonley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u r right 100 %
he didnt love u
he wanted u for sex and the best proof for that is when he didnt got what he wanted form u which is sex he left u because he dont love u
so u r a good girl for refusing that
and dont be sad one day u will find better than him
2006-10-25 11:46:19 · answer #1 · answered by micho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, girl. You were more than right to say NO. I applaud you your courage and control! Many would have caved in because they feel that the only way to prove that they love someone is to have sex with them. If he really loved you, he would not expect you to do something that you were not ready to do. He would respect that and not put pressure on you. You are 13? Hon I would swear that you are older. You are so young to have that much wisdom! Can I have a little? I can use all the wisdom I can get! :)
2006-10-25 18:49:49 · answer #2 · answered by ME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ABSOLUTLY. That is WAYYYYYY to young to have sex, and I commend you for turning it down. I have nothing wrong w/ pre-marital sex, but 13 is too young to be making those decisions and doing it safely. You did the right thing, and his dumping you shows he had no interest in the real you, just your body. He only would have hurt you.
2006-10-25 18:38:06 · answer #3 · answered by jaymes_07 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
**** yeah, you did the right thing.
Wait a while before gettin into another relationship, spend this time finding out what you want from yourself for it will make your future relationships all the better.
2006-10-25 18:34:30 · answer #4 · answered by Chris H 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, and If he got that mad, he probably just wanted to use you anyway!
If he was older than 18, its called rape and you need to someone closer to your own age.
Remember, there is no use by date on that thing and I'll bet your parents would appreciate the break!
Your better off!
2006-10-25 22:19:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because he would have dumped you anyways probably after you slept with him, they can be such jerks, they can sleep with as many girls as possible and even if the girl only slept with them they call her a slut and millions of other dumb words. even the most pretty of girls get dumped after they slept with their boyfriends, or after they say no. you are not alone, and I am proud you said no.
2006-10-25 18:38:11 · answer #6 · answered by Pheobe :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you even ASK that? did your mother not teach you that if anyone dumps you because you want to keep your body pure that HE is stupid....come on now if you were smart enough to say no then you should be smart enough to know that you were right
2006-10-25 18:36:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES YES YES YES YES honey YOU WERE SOOO RIGHT!! Listen to 'Dont Tell Me' by Avril Lavigne it will reinforce my answer!
2006-10-25 18:35:05 · answer #8 · answered by Waiting Takes Too Long 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you were totaly right. i mean you were 13 that is way to young.
2006-10-25 18:34:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Heavens yes, he was after one thing and one thing only. Good for you.
2006-10-25 18:35:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋