I met this guy in youth group, i really like him but he dated 2 of my friends one who just happens to be my BFF (since the end of last year). idk what 2 do, i told my friend we were talking but i didn't tell her how much (like 3 hours a day {im and phone}) what do i do??? plus i really like talking to him. In many ways im scared b.c i havent gone very far with anyone and he went all the way. What do i do????????? Help needed asap!
2006-10-25 11:27:22 · 24 answers · asked by Ra Cha Cha 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I met this guy in youth group, i really like him but he dated 2 of my friends one who just happens to be my BFF (since the end of last year). idk what 2 do, i told my friend we were talking but i didn't tell her how much (like 3 hours a day {im and phone}) what do i do??? plus i really like talking to him. In many ways im scared b.c i havent gone very far with anyone and he went all the way. What do i do????????? Help needed asap!
...and my friends know i like him and are ok with it but idk
2006-10-25 11:37:30 · update #1
i am so sorry that you in that kind of situation. i hope that i will never be in that situation. here is my take he was with your best friend and you should not be with a guy who was with your best friend. but really and truly i think it all depends on how much your best friend liked this guy and whether or not she gives her blessing. if she doesn't give her blessing then i think u should stay away from him but if she says it's okay and you really think she means it then you should get with him.
2006-10-25 12:10:01 · answer #1 · answered by dannie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All of you guys sound like loosers for dating the same guy. Espically the guy who's trying to keep in the "friendship circle" Are you guys the only people on earth or what? Seems like you are just trying to get a taste of what your other friends had. Don't even bother with him. You sound young, there will be plenty of guys (that your friends haven't touched) that you will come across. Don't sell yourself short for this one.
2006-10-25 11:30:08 · answer #2 · answered by sweet_truth 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this could be a gray area. as long as neither dating is unique, neither guy has any say in who you date different than them. it extremely is purely whilst one dating turns into unique which you're able to desire to furnish the different guy (and absolutely everyone else you ought to be seeing) the heave-ho. despite the fact that... those 2 adult males are pals. this might reason issues whilst they locate out, and the longer it takes the greater serious the themes would be. i might call the two certainly one of them and enable them to be attentive to what's occurring. on account that neither dating is unique yet, the themes should not be considerable... till between the adult males took it lots greater heavily than you theory.
2016-11-25 20:38:47 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were u, i would not go all the way wid him!!as matter of fact, since he dated ur friends i don't think it's a good idea to date him at all..i think ur friends could b mad at u too , if ur still friends wid ur gurl friends!!! since, both of ur friends didn't work out wid him,what make u think that it'll work out between u n this guy.....i think u should juss talk to him as a friends..and friends could talk for a long period of time..and there is nothing wrong wid talking on the phone....u don't have to tell ur friends anything u do wid him but if i were u!! i would not consider doing anything wid him, cuz i find nasty that he was wid ur friends before u.!! u should juss be friends..well wish u luck..juss don't do anything that u will regret later gurl!!
2006-10-25 11:36:58 · answer #4 · answered by miss_xiong03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No date is worth the price of a good friend. You are currently dating to learn more about relationships, he is dating to get laid. Stop talking to him and concentrate on spending time with your friends
2006-10-25 11:31:19 · answer #5 · answered by laterally (later in an alley) 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't date him.
2006-10-25 11:30:22 · answer #6 · answered by RoMa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey no sweet. if you really like this guy ( and he likes you of course) then go for it!! If your friends are your real friends they will understand plus if one of your friends let the other one go out with him they should no problem with letting you go out with right? well just follow your heart that is the best advice i can give you because your heart and your mind are the two best things that will give the best adviced : )
2006-10-25 11:43:56 · answer #7 · answered by Hillary 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, this is where you get to pick
a).Loose youre BFF for ever and go out with him for about 2 weeks
or
b).Look for someone none of your friends know and keep ur BFF
2006-10-25 11:31:19 · answer #8 · answered by Diaz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, your friends have dated him.........you shouldn't date him if one still has feelings 4 him, but heck if not... who cares! Date that boy! You really like him!!!! Your friends should be happy 4 you
GooD LucK
2006-10-25 11:33:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't go there. Not worth risking a friendship. He sounds like a smooth operator, not cool. Save your time and effort for someone deserving- you are worth it!
2006-10-25 11:30:54 · answer #10 · answered by MadeaQueenOfScotts 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋