hey met a really nice man few weeks ago, he started wanting to see me everyday which was fine. But he kept sayn how lucky i was to be with him and that he never wanted a girlfriend but im an exception, normally its see the girl and get rid of her. Well he started buying me flowers and being sweet but he introduced me to a gang hes been in since he was young and his family. He started getting too forward with me so i told him to back off, i mean physically. At the weekend i got upset and cried and he siad he likes me like that. He brags about how hes repected. He calls me everyday. Its getting a bit much for me, hes already said hed spend the rest of his life with me. Bit strange?
2006-10-25 11:21:42 · 31 answers · asked by janeysmithster 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
can you say crazy?!?!?!? dumb his a** pronto
2006-10-25 11:25:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you that desperate that you would take up AND keeps seeing a Grade A,24karat, first Class Nutter?
This man you have known only a few weeks likes seeing you cry, telling you he wants to spend his life with you, getting forward physically, basically crowding you.
You are already somewhat isolated if you are seeing him every day. What about your own friends and family?
How dumb do you have to be to realise that if you stay with him you are going to be intimidated, isolated, violated, degraded, and turned into in indoor girlfriend aka punch bag.
What part of 'gang' doesn't ring warning bells.
What kind of person needs to be in a gang once they are an adult?
You need your family and friends as back up and be quick to get the police when this jerk then starts stalking you.
You made a mistake he seemed nice, now be sensible and get rid and get protection.
2006-10-25 18:34:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him u r through. Maybe He is having problems, cause he is certainly taking them out on u. If he is in a gang, like does bad stuff gang, there is no way u can stay with him and be safe. If it's like scooby doo's gang then... he's still kreepy. I don't trust him and i don't think u should. But he's not my boyfriend so i can't tell him to get a life, it's up to you. Say it nicley though and if u do it in person bring a cell phone and friends and or family, but on the phone would be a good idea (like some1 else said). But u got to be very careful. Watch your back. When u leave the house take friends and/or family 4 a little while. Be careful. I'll pray 4 u.
2006-10-27 00:48:13 · answer #3 · answered by mary-jane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mmm...sounds like this bf on urs is rushing it, a bit over himself and getting a bit obsessive. well you can't say he's strange because some people are like that. Lets just say he's different (or special).
A small advice: if what he's doing is really bugging u, make sure that he knows. And tell him how u feel about the whole relationship if not he won't stop...
Hope that helps
2006-10-25 18:41:03 · answer #4 · answered by perfectly_messy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes stranger then strange!
tell him to back off! and to give you some space girrrl!
tell him your not comfortable with those kind of commitments yet, especially if you just met him a few weeks ago,some people are togethers for months and years,and theyre not even ready for them kind of commitments!!
in a gang?SAY WHAT? leave,and RUN FOR YOUR LIFE! GOD DAMMIT WOMEN!!
trust me,is this Dude dodgy in the head or what??!!!! :s
2006-10-25 18:30:14 · answer #5 · answered by *Å®åßîåñ P®îñÇꧧ ©* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds very co-dependant. He probably thinks that by telling you how special you are to have him, you'll believe it. But he can't be respecting you that much if he's not respecting the pace you want to go at, physically. I would say definatley back off, for your own safety. Who knows what would happen if you two moved in together or something and you decided you wanted to leave.
2006-10-25 18:27:15 · answer #6 · answered by Usual 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a lunatic and this is only the start of it id get rid quick before he gets any stranger and you'll probably be acccused of leading him on goodluck
2006-10-28 09:03:10 · answer #7 · answered by answer me this..... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes not your boyfriend if you are not having a physically. relationship with him unless you are under 18 or its a religious thing. And why are you crying, it sounds like you are calling the shots in this platonic relationship, he should be the one crying as it just sounds like you are Teasing him.
2006-10-26 07:31:47 · answer #8 · answered by John Q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has real problems babe i went out with a bloke years ago. he told me id never met anyone like him and noone would love me like him. He ended up being very violent . GET OUT NOW! and do it over phone do not do it face to face seriously
2006-10-25 18:27:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a gang.. oh girl freakin run for the hills do u even have to question this? dont be a dumb *** he kinds sounds a lil on the wacky side.. you may even like want to get a restraining order .. good luck
2006-10-25 18:25:51 · answer #10 · answered by michelle b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the sort you'd cross the road to avoid
2006-10-26 08:01:01 · answer #11 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋