There is this girl at school that I have liked for a very long time, (lets call her Stacy). She is extremely beautiful, and I am 99.99% sure that she likes me and wants to go out with me too. Also, I am constantly seeing other guys that are trying to go out with her. The problem is that there is another girl (let’s call her Ashley), who I am sort of friends with, (she’s my sisters friend, and we jokingly flirt with each other sometimes). She is also unbelievably beautiful, but I never really thought that she liked me romantically until recently. The thing is that Stacy is practically a guarantee, but it would be so much better to be with Ashley. But I also feel that if I go after Ashley then Stacy will get offended or find another guy, and I will never have another chance, and all the while Ashley will find a different guy and Ill be left alone. Plus Ashley being one of my sisters’ friends, if we did have a relationship, it would be too awkward to continue it. I don’t know what to do?
2006-10-25 11:10:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is a tough one. I think there are many other guys that have had that same exact thing happen to him. I would probably go with Stacy personally. She isn't your sisters friend, you know for sure she is interested and it isn't like she is a bad pick. There is an old saying, A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush. What that means is something that is a definite (Stacey) is better than risky prospects (Ashley).
Good luck to you, let us know how it goes.
2006-10-25 11:19:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anthony L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go with Stacy. If things don't work out, Ashley will still be around as your sisters friend and you will have another chance with her.
2006-10-25 11:35:37 · answer #2 · answered by Brad S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. This is confusing. Both of them are 'extremely beautiful. i get that part. but who do you like like more? You know what I mean...personality. You've know Stacy for a while, and you know her well. Ashley, you just kinda know, plus she's your sister's friend. Let's see...friends for a longer time, pretty, nice, you are almost positive she likes you (Stacy)...or extremely pretty, sister's friend (making it ackward for you if you guys slit up), you are kinda friends with, and aren't sure if she likes you(ashley)?
I'm gonna have to say...Stacy!
WE HAVE A WINNER!!!
2006-10-25 11:17:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
stacy sounds like a good choice, you dont want an awkward relationship with ashley
2006-10-25 11:14:06 · answer #4 · answered by Bri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find the one that u think is the best. who do u like the best stacy or ashley.or get to learn about them more then ill let u pick up from there.hope this helps!!! :)
2006-10-25 11:16:21 · answer #5 · answered by jungkim_4_4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol moments like this is when having a twin brother would come quite handy for you...what do u want people to say to you? go out with whoever u think u would hate to see with another guy or tell both of them u are not sure just yet in being in a close relationship and u just want to date, that way u can date both of them and see who u are really compatible as a couple and not as just friends. good luck
2006-10-25 11:16:24 · answer #6 · answered by escorpiona_24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with Stacy.
2006-10-25 11:12:45 · answer #7 · answered by rorlegion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you LIKE them both, you LOVE neither. Just give it time, it'll become clear. If you don't want that advice, then Frida. Frida's prettier and wants to talk to you every night, and you're not even sure if Regina likes you.
2016-05-22 13:48:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was in your situation and a guy then i would choose the stacy gurl so u wont have to worry about your sister
2006-10-25 11:17:22 · answer #9 · answered by stephanie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...
heres the thing
ask both girls howthey feel about you
you might never know that stacey likes you as long as you have liked her
and if ashley doesnt like you....
ps....it really doesnt matter how beautfiul a girl is...what matters is if she treats you special...
another ps!! lol
maybe stacey talks to other boys tryin to find the right one and maybe just maybe thats you
2006-10-25 11:15:09 · answer #10 · answered by ~ME~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋