i am bi and there is a girl that i started talkin to and we have been friends for about 10 years... and i was datin the "guy of my dreams" at the time .. however when me and her started talkin i broke up with him for her since she told me that her and her girl was having problems and ... well when me and him broke up ... they were better. However she asked me to wait on her .. so i told her i would. This has been a month ago or so ... what should i do about all these mixed feelings?!?!? no funny crap ya'll im serious!
2006-10-25 10:59:41 · 7 answers · asked by allie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I kind of had that same problem, but not exactly. I was with this boy, and another boy was waiting on me. The boy ended up waiting on me.. and we ended up getting together. You have to ask yourself how long you are willing to wait. You two have known each other for 10 years. You have to know a lot about each other and if you still feel attracted to one another, then that's saying something. You shouldn't be with her unless you know she is fully committed to you alone. If she likes you, then her other relationship is obviously not a great one.
If you don't wait, who else are you going to go for? Take a break for yourself and wait for her at the same time. But, don't wait for ever, you may just be keeping her reassured that she'll have someone no matter what, and that you're her back up.
hun, only you can help yourself, nobody knows how you feel or all the information like you do. Reread your question and answer it as if it were someone else. I realize that I asked questions that I could have solved myself. If you need anything.. email me.
2006-10-25 11:19:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you gave up "the guy of your dreams" for a girl that was only having problems... well that was just dumb. If its been a month then don't do it, she is basically playing with your head, because she wants you around, but also doesn't want to give the girl she is with up either... basically having some cake and eating it too kinda thing, but really when it comes down to it, you have to make the decision weather you want to pursue it or not, and if its really worth fighting for... think about it...
2006-10-25 18:04:43 · answer #2 · answered by mercy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A bird in the hand beats two in the bush. You went after the bush (figuratively) and lost the bird you had. Your loss sweetie.
Keep busy and get a life and you will be more appealing to everybody.
2006-10-25 18:04:51 · answer #3 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont wait on anybody for long just put them on the back burner for now and move on,lifes to short to wait for something that may never be
2006-10-25 18:05:39 · answer #4 · answered by k70 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart. Make sure she isn't stringing you along. Maybe she just like the attention.
2006-10-25 18:02:59 · answer #5 · answered by vancie121 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't wait for her move on. a month ago or so that's to long either she wants to be with you or she don't.
2006-10-25 18:04:55 · answer #6 · answered by teresa.edmonds@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she's still with her girl and now ur left alone..i dont think u should wait for her...that's totally unfair for u
2006-10-25 18:02:26 · answer #7 · answered by casj2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋