i mean say any thing because i am in her house aand that i am not aroung my family what am i suppose to do i need some ideas on how to hanlde my problem can you give me any?
2006-10-25 10:44:02 · 13 answers · asked by tameaka m 1 in Pets ➔ Dogs
talk with her about how you feel . .
or leave . .
2006-10-25 10:45:41 · answer #1 · answered by a_blue_grey_mist 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
FIRST do you have a job?
Second do you pay half or more than half the BILLS?
If your just laying around not working or paying bills then you should be cleaning and keeping the whole house clean along with cooking
you can't have your ice cream and cake and want to eat it all up
but if your working and paying part of the bills and she is still like that well it won't matter what you do cos she just doesn't respect you enuf
Do you have a relationship with this person? i'd move out let her realize she isn't all that
maybe then she will love you and love the fact you lived with her
its all about respect dude if there is none then leave
or have a sit down with her and ask her whats up
something isn't right and it sounds like only she knows
GOOOOD LUCK
2006-10-25 17:51:57 · answer #2 · answered by Majenta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been through this many times. If you are paying for your room you MUST get some credit or better treatment. Now, if you are not paying, and don't have anywhere to go then you should either talk to this person and let her/him know your true feelings. Sometimes when we start a new job or in your case we start living with different people than our family, we encounter people that already have a behavior pattern. this means that maybe she treats you like that because she treats everybody like that. The fact that you are in her space unconciously makes her feel like that's her territory, and she does whaterver she wants in her own space.
Talk to her and let her know your true feelings. Don't let anybody treat you like something you don't deserve. Think again before calling her "friend" again...
Good luck!
2006-10-25 17:54:25 · answer #3 · answered by k. Osle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on her...What the age difference... Do you work or go to school? If your older and work and age appropriate... you good but maybe she is dealing with a few issues and doesn't know how to handle it...
But coming fromn experience I can't really yell in my house either considering that I am of appropriate age....It' sjust if they say they pay rent..your screwed..cuz they can give you the boot...so my advice is to try and have a sit down...the pros and the cons..see where the both of you meet?
2006-10-25 20:15:42 · answer #4 · answered by ewllita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since your in the animal section maybe you should go out for a walk more often and calm down.
2006-10-28 19:16:44 · answer #5 · answered by barmyberni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is not for you if she loves you then that wouldn't evrn enter her taughts its abuot love and respect so you need to know what you want in life to mentally abuse by the person you love and don't love that much in return the choice is yours you pick
2006-10-25 17:48:12 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel and if things dont change find somewhere else to live.or just give it her back only 10 times worse.
2006-10-25 17:47:37 · answer #7 · answered by clarelouiseprince 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eat through her sofa and poo in her shoes then write on her mirror respect is mutual!
2006-10-28 07:49:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to speak to her and if that don't work hit her a dig and move on. Ya can still with me if you like.
2006-10-25 18:06:21 · answer #9 · answered by chass_lee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she doesn't want you there and you should start trying to find somewhere else to live.
2006-10-25 17:46:11 · answer #10 · answered by DumBlonD 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do not give in to her condescending ways. have respect for yourself and others will too. hope your situation changes.
2006-10-25 17:46:01 · answer #11 · answered by dijfojri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋