So as far as starting to makeout now with a woman I am dating....but I still haven't felt her up or anything like that and it has only been the end of the previous and the last date that we made out. Now when is it that women expect to be felt up...ie breasts, under the shirt or over the shirt while making out for example?
Just curious because on this dating stuff Im not sure if everything has its time or if it more or less it happens when it happens and just rolling with it
2006-10-25 10:35:48 · 14 answers · asked by chewey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ever heard the expression "one thing led to another"? That's pretty much how it goes. You both just keep going until one of you isn't comfortable. Then the next time, you work your way up to that and go further. Basically, the more you think about it at the time, the more awkward you'll look and feel.
2006-10-25 10:39:21 · answer #1 · answered by Ryan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um like dude, Yo just gatta flow wit dat man. I mean like stop thinking about when and it will just happen at the right time. I honestly don't that it was a pigish question. Lots of guys have this question and that is why i always make the first move if the guy seems unsure about what to do. Well Good Luck!
2006-10-25 10:48:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-08 21:15:02 · answer #3 · answered by ricaurte 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, go with the flow, and pay attention to her for clues. If she pulls away, stiffens up, or moves your hand away, then you've gone too far and it's time to slow down.
If she's comfortable with her sexuality, she will start touching you and you can mirror what she does (not simultaneously, that would be weird, but if she grabs your butt you'll know it's okay to grab her butt, that sort of thing).
Don't expect or ask for too much right away... if you really like her, you've got plenty of time to get to know her. Enjoy each step.
2006-10-25 10:47:59 · answer #4 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no set rule-sorry ( ah to be young and flirting again hehe )
there is also nothing in writing that this girl wants you to do more than you have so far
if you want to be a gentleman-in my opinion-you'll know when by
the turn of the head-the curl of the lip-the smokey eyes-the touching done by the other party
or she may get really direct-either way
just go with the flow
2006-10-25 10:45:34 · answer #5 · answered by sheri 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a chill pill 1st. Don't look to be sexual on dates because the women know were already thinking about it. If you find a chick who is frisky and sexual, then you can land in her pants fairly fast. But I like pure ladies, so this is out of my league now.
2006-10-25 10:40:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's this thing we do with our eyes just before that first kiss...
it's all instinct.
Good rule of thumb?
Let her start to touch you, and mirror what she does in a general way.
If she's going places on you where she'd rather you not, she's unfair anyway,a nd that's not likely to build the trust you need on any level.
2006-10-25 10:39:02 · answer #7 · answered by starryeyed 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
-I prefer under the shirt, but over the bra
-Appropriate time would be after you've tongued on 3 separate occassions
-Slow hand movements, and GENTLE squeezing
-Direct niple stimulation should be saved for a much later date (unless she really wants it)
2006-10-25 10:45:18 · answer #8 · answered by tbonz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is really a set 'time frame' for that. I would use your good judgment and instincts. Does she seem really into you? Are you really into her? Just respect her feelings if she's not quite ready yet for more than you have done so far. Take it slow especially if you really like her......
2006-10-25 10:42:15 · answer #9 · answered by mychemicalromancelover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like it the first time I made out, and I might even feel weird if it didn't happen. You are such a gentleman!
2006-10-25 10:38:54 · answer #10 · answered by noambition 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋