My Mother thinks it's impossible for a fifteen year old girl to know the difference between love and lust. It is true that most teens don't really understand the difference, but I feel positive I do because I have feelings for a girl. Being with her makes me so happy, and doing the smallest things for her. I love seeing her smile, and I would like to spend my life with her. But why is it that people feel I only have the ability to feel lust?
2006-10-25 10:27:14 · 9 answers · asked by Jamie-chan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is no real answer to this question but what I have learned of what love is to me and that is the word LOVE itself holds the answer.......
(L)isten: and validate them by hearing and empathizing.
(O)verlook: their minor character flaws as they will overlook yours.
(V)alue: who they are and what they mean to you.
(E)xpress: how you love them not just with words but with actions.
If you can understand this and apply all four then yes they can!
2006-10-28 20:57:09 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you speaking like infants are some little 8 3 hundred and sixty 5 days olds? infants sense the comparable emotional united statesand downs as an older guy or woman might. merely b/c we are a undeniable age, that would not advise we don't sense and understand what love is. We date so they can learn further and extra from our errors. And we learn from the errors others make to boot. i'm 19 so i does no longer recognize who replaced into husband textile yet till I did some soul looking or what no longer. yet yeah, i'm gaining expertise of from my previous errors so i recognize what to do. in case you fail, attempt returned.
2016-12-28 04:59:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why, coz we been there and done that, but i know you are inlove but your mom is saying is don't fall inlove too hard coz you might get hurt, its also a part of love=hurt when problems comes along. You are still young and you might find true love right now but you might find it later. I thought when i was 12 I already find my true love coz we are really inlove, but because we are young and lots to explore things to see and learn, we separate our ways. I don't regret it coz I might be pregnant by 16 and not travel the way Im doing now and explore the world. Meet different people and learn their culture. As long as you enjoy your teenage years and don't hurry to get married, trust me, you will miss this moment and realize it when you get older. You will meet a lot of girls in your lifetime, at the moment have fun and enjoy with your girl, don't forget your study, you need that for your future. goodluck!
2006-10-25 10:42:54 · answer #3 · answered by sure_whatever_29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know that I would call it "lust", but the honest truth, that no teenager likes to hear, is that what you feel at 15 is not in the same realm of feelings as what you will be feeling at 30. There is no way to explain this... it has to be experienced. What you feel at 15 is as real as you are capable of, but it is not the same.
2006-10-25 10:49:17 · answer #4 · answered by Jack 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Understanding is not based off of age.
We apply what we feel at birth, so indirectly we "undersatnd" love at birth, unless your talking about the love between two individuals on a relationship aspect.
2006-10-25 10:35:39 · answer #5 · answered by Chris H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the problem is........your young your gonna get your heart broken you really dont know what you want or like in a person yet its gonna take some time to learn these things take it slowly enjoy it while it lasts many young people get married too young they wind up with kids and then it falls apart and the ones who pay the price are the kids take it slow
2006-10-25 10:50:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can anyone really "understand" love. It means so many to different people but I do think teenage love is a very potent emotion perhaps that's why it is said you never forget your first love.
2006-10-25 10:44:29 · answer #7 · answered by Bella Donna 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no,too young and when you get older you will understand
2006-10-25 10:32:01 · answer #8 · answered by k70 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They have no fu*king clue!!!!
Mr Happy
:o)
2006-10-25 10:30:31 · answer #9 · answered by hagtagg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋