Well Ilike this boy ALOT he said he didn't have a girlfriend. But he does and his girlfriend and cousins now want to jump me the next time they see me. I tried reasoning with her but she won't listen. He said he wants to keep it on the DL. Because he really really likes me alot. ANd hes like the best looking guy where I live! What should I do?!?!?!?
2006-10-25 10:25:24 · 17 answers · asked by Irreplaceable 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stay away. I can't tell you gals this enough. If he has a girlfriend, it's really simple...he's not available. Back off. Find someone else to like ALOT.
2006-10-25 10:26:59 · answer #1 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it real and don't get hooked up. You black girls love to be with anything that looks good. Honestly, you sound like you are really young and under 18, so I would suggest staying single and in my opinion you are too young to be with a boy. Boy's for the most part are not equipped or mature to have a good girlfriend and neither are the females.
2006-10-25 17:28:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well in this case his looks can Kill, Kill you at least girl it is truly not worth all that drama you running and/or having to fight girls all the time. He obviously does not like you like that if he has a girlfriend.
Why should you come second? He obviously wants to use you for something. Get out of there while you can. Trust me he probably told some other poor girl out there that he likes her a lot too and she is probably believing the same thing. If you look their is someone for everyone just be patient that person can be right under your nose
Hope this helps!!!!
2006-10-25 17:31:00 · answer #3 · answered by Breann 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone. Any man let some chick fight you is a punk. DL my butt! you're beautiful...why would any man want to hide you? There will be other men in the sea. And about the girls. That's call jealousy! I would tell your mom. Moms know how to deal with that stuff. My did anyway! She save me from a bunch of but kickings as a teenager.
2006-10-25 17:29:17 · answer #4 · answered by luvladyblue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. If this guy would cheat on his girlfriend and lie about the fact that he even HAS a girlfriend, he will cheat on YOU and will lie about it.
Why would you want that?
2. If you can't think of any better reason to want to be with him besides 'he's the best looking guy' where you live, that's a pretty shallow reason and you have no business being with anyone.
2006-10-25 17:29:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't depend on his looks to see what kind of quality he holds. obviously he's a big loser because he lied to you about his status. and that girl and his cousins are being very unreasonable. why the heck does they wanna jump YOU for something that her stupid boyfriend said? he's an idiot. i think that you should call all of them up and tell the guy to just fess up to his girlfriend right in front of you. if he lies then you know that he's not worth chasing. oh yeah. bring a friend along too in case that girl wants to deck you, which would be very f-ed up of her.
good luck, and i hope it helps in a way.
2006-10-25 17:34:10 · answer #6 · answered by Cathy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like this guy I assume you want it to lead to more...right? Well he is showing you what kind of bf he would be...would you want to be the gf that he was keeping another girl on the DL with?
There are guys out there that are pretty to look at but dangerous to touch...I think this one definitely qualifies.
run...and don't be suprised when he chases you...just run faster or he will destroy your heart - guaranteed.
2006-10-25 17:32:44 · answer #7 · answered by angela w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He didn't mention leaving his girl for you, so he doesn't like you as much as you think.
If you want to get played by this fool and beat up by his girl and her crew, then go right ahead.
And one more thing, I bet he has done this before, and is probably talking to one of his other chickenheads right now.
Find someone else honey.
2006-10-25 17:30:21 · answer #8 · answered by tbonz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to get lost and find a guy that is not a liar. He wants to hide your seeing eachother? He is dating someone else and he is not proud of you, sounds like an total ***.
2006-10-25 17:28:22 · answer #9 · answered by Gwen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run fast. Run far. Put as much distance between you and him as you can. If he cheats on her, he'll cheat on you.
When she sees you're serious about avoiding him, she'll probably see you as a fellow victim.
2006-10-25 17:35:04 · answer #10 · answered by Dianne A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋