You broke up with your GF and 3 months later you realize that you still like her and want to be with her. You broke up because you wanted to grow some on your own and try to become a better partner. But now she is seeing some one but it is not seriouse. She does like him alot but they can only see eachother a few hours a week. She is the type that wont see more then one person at a time. I just told her how much i miss her and care for her last night and she said its bad timing. Should I try to keep in touch with her by txting here and their and calling here and their or should i just move on?
2006-10-25 10:16:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't make her sick of you back off a little keep in touch but not like a stalker. a little hi bye who are you i miss you and that's it. until she is single and then she will tell you how she feels about you. but don't make her hate you.
2006-10-25 10:21:30 · answer #1 · answered by lilbabythree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that a text or a phone call here and there would hurt. But don't make each of your random communications all sappy. Just try to be friends w/ her and keep it that way.
If she wants to start up again she will know what to do.
If you get desperate to the point where you want to break them up then I would suggest moving on. If you care about her then you'll respect her wishes & not force her.
2006-10-25 10:20:22 · answer #2 · answered by Niko 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually, you should do both. If you care about her then do not lose contact. Keep texting her and staying in contact. But at the same time, move on. You can still do that and be friends with her. All because she isn't ready yet, doesn't mean you should be kept hanging on. Stay friends, stay close and move on. Good luck.
2006-10-25 10:21:57 · answer #3 · answered by looloo1122 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's moved on and so should you. Don't let her keep you from being truly happy with someone else.
I know you are hurting, and the pain will lessen the more you get back to yourself.
Go out, have fun. If she were truly the right person for you she would not be seeing anyone else.
Enjoy your life!
2006-10-25 10:20:22 · answer #4 · answered by gagam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she says its bad timing, she probably isn't interested. If you still want that person, any timing would be good timing. Move on, you can do better, especially now that you have had time to grow! :-)
2006-10-25 10:19:24 · answer #5 · answered by Fran Y 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would tell you to really consider moving on...I know its soooo hard to not be with a person that you have so much past with, but it just has to happen. Just think of it this way... you will find somebody better....i know this, because it happen to me...so just try...it cant hurt to try.
2006-10-25 10:27:38 · answer #6 · answered by shootdadeputy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You knew the consequences when you broke up with her...meaning you couldn't expect her to wait around for you to grow. If you were amicable about the break-up, I would just give her an open inviation to date again when it is good timing for her. In the meantime...don't wait around.
2006-10-25 10:23:42 · answer #7 · answered by Catlady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would still stay in touch with her just as a friend to see if anything happens. you never know what could happen, over time she might get feelings for you again. good luck.
2006-10-25 10:21:09 · answer #8 · answered by ashley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone. She has a boyfriend and would consider your attention interference if she is the kind of person you say she is.
2006-10-25 10:19:01 · answer #9 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I'm a girl, but I think most likely a lot of girls with their boo.
2006-10-25 10:18:21 · answer #10 · answered by T-Pow Frizz Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋