This is my first date and I seriously need some help. I am 13, and I have absoulty no idea how to talk to him. He is super nice and we are friends already. He has not asked me out yet. Can any one help?
2006-10-25 10:11:49 · 15 answers · asked by Kris13 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The only thing you can do is be yourself! I know that sounds corny but it is the truth. chances are you will not marry him or probably even remember him at 15 so just relax and enjoy being young before you get old!! Here are some things you can try to help you not get nervous...........
1. suck on a piece of candy it helps produce more spit so your mouth does not get dry.
2. Carry a cell phone if you have one and tell one of your girlfriends to call you that will help you relax and break silence.
3. make sure you wear something comfortable
4. before you go write down a list of questions that you can ask him. that will also help break silence and it is important to keep him talking and show him that you are interested in him while leaving some mystery to you!!
Good luck sweetie!!
2006-10-25 10:21:43 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't have a first date, until he actually asks you out. Then it's a date.
Meantime, 13 year olds don't date. Is he picking you up in his car, taking you out somewhere nice? If not, it's not a date...it's playtime.
Sorry to break you heart on this....but it's true. So in the meantime, just think of him as a friend, and act like one too.
2006-10-25 10:14:30 · answer #2 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he has not asked you out yet then how are you going on a date? Talk to him the same way you have always talked to him.
2006-10-25 10:14:01 · answer #3 · answered by Allinwiththenuts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, so are you going on a date? Or you just have the inside scoop that he's going to ask you?
Well, either way, stay as normal as possible. He doesn't like the shy girl that pankics and sweats when he's around. Just the fun girl who a cutie! So be just that. Think of him as a cool cousin....until it time to kiss goodnight then you can think he's J.T. or somebody extra fine!
2006-10-25 10:16:56 · answer #4 · answered by luvladyblue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and talk friends talk. Don't get up tight with this be calm and just enjoy the movie, or what ever you are going to do. I would just wait till he asks you out to begin with.
2006-10-25 10:15:18 · answer #5 · answered by Chuck C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
B eurself have confidence pretend as if u were talking to some of your other friends the way you will talk to them
2006-10-25 10:14:32 · answer #6 · answered by sexyme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all RELAX!!!! second of all sit down and think about it, think about what he likes and what u like, think about what u have in common and then just remember, never make someone ur everything because if u lose them you will have nothing. you act like friends, thats what you pretty much are, exept here you just may get into other things, enough said.
2006-10-25 10:16:16 · answer #7 · answered by Ra Cha Cha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then how do you know you're going on a date, if he hasn't asked you yet?? you just have to let things flow. talk about things he likes to do, or talk about something that's going on at school or in your community right now.
2006-10-25 10:15:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has not asked you out how can you go on a date? Concentrate on school sweetie.
2006-10-25 10:15:30 · answer #9 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm13 too! what do ya know! anywho... just go to a movie. if u don't know how to talk to him a movie is the best place. u don't have to talk there!!
good luck w/ ur first date!!! and maybe a first kiss if ur lucky!!
2006-10-25 10:17:05 · answer #10 · answered by Emy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋