I have a guy friend at work, whom I sometimes have romantic feelings for. He's very nice, sensitive, and funny, but he's already in a serious long-distance relationship with his fiancee. I told him that I did have some feelings for him and being funny as he is, he told me that I should consider him as a friend only. How can I stop feeling this way about him? Should I stop talking to him?
2006-10-25 10:09:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't stop talking to him just don't be so close. trust me the more you think of him the harder it will be. then when it dose get to hard then theirs no more friend ship
2006-10-25 10:13:55 · answer #1 · answered by lilbabythree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a "close friend" to him. Spend time with him outside of work. Make plans with him...as friends, of course. I'd bet that if he's interested in you - he'll start questioning his long-distance relationship and break things off.
This exact thing happened to me...except the woman lost interest, and now I am very much alone. :(
So I guess what I'm saying is that you can try to make some magic happen and medle in his personal life...but nothing is ever a sure thing, and it could end up being a complete train wreck!
Good luck!
2006-10-25 10:13:30 · answer #2 · answered by The Rainmaker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stop because what you are doing is wrong. He is in a relationship already. He told you how he feels about you now be his friend and look for a single man
2006-10-25 10:11:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's already told you to back off. I would take his advice and look at him as friend material only - but he may have some cute friends so don't cut off all conversation.
2006-10-25 10:12:45 · answer #4 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop Now love
2006-10-25 10:11:00 · answer #5 · answered by sensa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you should stop talking to him. If you don't, you're only going to make yourself miserable & him uncomfortable. In time, you feelings for him will ease.
2006-10-25 10:12:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No never that would be wrong since he said this to you let is dissolve in your head and maybe you will stop thinking bout him
2006-10-25 10:11:58 · answer #7 · answered by sexyme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can tell him how you feel, then your strong enough to back off, if you cant be friends with him then yes tell him you cant be friends and dont converse anymore.
2006-10-25 10:19:27 · answer #8 · answered by wiltshire lass 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, you should just move on until the feelings pass. believe me, they will. occupy your time with other stuff. go out with girlfriends and check out other guys.
2006-10-25 10:11:47 · answer #9 · answered by Ash 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop talking would be the safest thing
2006-10-25 10:17:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋