My boyfriend is twenty-two. He has never done anything with a girl. He's never even been kissed! Maybe his Asperger's Syndrome has something to do with it...doctors told his parents that he would be in an institution by fifteen, instead he was in the IB program in high school. He went to Duke, majored in biology and is now studying molecular genetics in grad school. Now that you know some about him, what do you think about him being twenty-two and not doing anything? What should I try with him? When? How?
2006-10-25 09:41:26 · 9 answers · asked by Samantha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Aspergers' is curious. Have you seen Boston Legal.
There is an attorney that has Aspergers' syndrome.
You may have to take the lead. He simply may not be able to.
But if he is unable to participate and sex is important to you. Get out of the relationship. Otherwise you will be miserable for a long time.
2006-10-25 09:50:28 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i was in the same position as you boyfriend but it took a girl to change me, so here is the tip..... are you really sure your boyfriend loves you?, the secreat is that, all you need to do is make him know that he means the whole world to you, engage in converstations, emails and phone calls.
this is what my gf did on me. try to kiss him first and let's see if he can resist, he may be shy so do make him over come this.
i hope this works
2006-10-29 15:13:19 · answer #2 · answered by asuoonline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how old you are, and if YOU are ready for stuff like kissing, etc... take him out to eat one night, and maybe give him a goodnight kiss, thats a start
2006-10-25 16:46:21 · answer #3 · answered by shea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start with a kiss!
You will never call him as your boyfriends if you never kiss him.
After you done this, you can try others.
2006-10-25 16:47:31 · answer #4 · answered by LuvEd&Jee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what Jenny did in Forest Gump.
2006-10-25 16:44:05 · answer #5 · answered by Just gorgeous dahling 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you both have some maturing to do.....take it one simple step at a time.
2006-10-25 16:45:49 · answer #6 · answered by Barbara H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you consider him your bf, if youve never even kissed him? that would be a good start, and then go from there.
2006-10-25 16:44:15 · answer #7 · answered by rand a 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow. Be sweet, not raunchy,
2006-10-25 16:44:42 · answer #8 · answered by nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask, I'd say you aren't ready either....
2006-10-25 16:43:48 · answer #9 · answered by The ReDesign Diva 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋