Hi this girl said no to a date and so now whenever we cross paths she still makes eye contact. What to make of this?
-Vince-
2006-10-25 09:35:10 · 8 answers · asked by Vince 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because she isn't done playing with you yet.
Ever watch a cat catches a mouse? They rarely kill them in one go. They prefer to toy with them, inflict pain, let them think they are getting away then do it again.
Until they eventually get bored and either leave them to die in agony or eat them.
2006-11-01 11:23:29 · answer #1 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kind of strange behavior, I agree. It depends on the eye contact. Is she staring at you? Is she looking at you thoughtfully? Does she glance and look away?
I'll ask you a question in return: How should you respond to this? You like her, and you were rejected. Now she's looking at your, for whatever reason, but she's looking at you.
If you're interested in her changing her mind down the road, do this. She's expecting you to act/feel sad, needy, clingy, depressed. Don't. Girls like unpredictable. Don't act like a snob and that you hate her so you're not going to talk to her -- that's too drastic. Instead, act like you're not phased by her rejection, and still be friendly, but not too interested.
She makes eye contact? Give her a friendly wink and a smirk (if you're not a winker, give her a smirk). And look to what you were looking at before. See how she responds, and what happens next. If she becomes more interested in you as a result of your confident and happy behavior and actually comes up and talks to you, tease her about rejecting you. Make light of it. Act a bit indifferent, but still playful. And see what happens.
2006-10-25 09:44:47 · answer #2 · answered by mjfly 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Obviously, if a girl rejected you and still makes eye contact means she wants you to ask her again instead of she looking like she is the fool. She is playing hard to get.
2006-10-25 09:49:50 · answer #3 · answered by Bella-G 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, this means secretly she does still like you, but she's to stuck up to admit it. Maybe your not the type of person she prefers to date, but it's hard for her to get past you without staring deep into your eyes to see if she can find an excuss to date you. :o) hehehe
2006-10-25 09:41:43 · answer #4 · answered by Jenna 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are not an animal, just not her type.
Or maybe her dad will beat the sh.it out of her if she dates a guy.
2006-10-25 09:41:22 · answer #5 · answered by Lotus Phoenix 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She's playing hard to get
2006-10-25 09:41:50 · answer #6 · answered by HHH 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
she is thinking about it,, stay cool,, talk to her, let her figure out what she is missing out on
2006-10-25 09:39:12 · answer #7 · answered by Glimmer__Man1 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
she feels bad
2006-10-25 09:37:09 · answer #8 · answered by Angel. 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋