I have been with this guy for 3 years and we have been having problems for the last year mainly cause I give give give and he does no giving and I sacrifice alot for him and he dont me, well I have become depressed and my doctor,friends and family want me to try an anti-depresant and he thinks if I do that I wont be the same person basically he said if I take them he considers me a drug addict! And ever since we talke about me taking them he has made his self distant and we have not seen each other in 2 days well usually we see each other everyday and he dont even ask if he can come over or if I ant to come down there so.... He really hurts my feelings about the whole situation because I think that if cared like he said he did he would support me to do whatever is gonna make me better and to top it all off his mother has been telling him that if I take them they will make me not love him anymore and make me crazy!?!What do you think about the situation and what I should do?
2006-10-25 09:14:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl, you know what the right thing to do is. You need to move on. He is holding you back. What a jerk. His motivations are totally selfish. He's worried that if you actually get your self esteem back and get some self respect again that you won't take his **** anymore, and that's exactly what should happen. You open that bottle of medication the doctor has prescribed for you and start taking it immediately. Also, I would suggest a counselor or therapist. If that particular medication doesn't work for you there are many others to try. I struggle with depression and had to try several before I found the right one for me. My husband has been nothing but supportive in my struggle to find myself and the right medication. If your man truly loved you and wanted what was best for you, he'd be right there backing you all the way making sure your health was first in his priority list. Sounds to me like he is seriously selfish and immature. It's time you for you to give yourself some serious TLC. Goodluck!
2006-10-25 09:26:06 · answer #1 · answered by Shel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you arleady know what you need to do. You need to break up with this guy.
Why would you continue in a relatioship like this? You don't seem to get anything from it but hearache.
Free yourself so you can spent time with someone else that makes you feel like a girl should feel.
2006-10-25 16:16:34 · answer #2 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is the 1 dat made u depressed and he isnt helping so i think u should think about moving on
2006-10-25 16:17:06 · answer #3 · answered by muthafaka8o8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋