I have a complex situation at home. I have a 15 mo old daughter. My mom comes over 3 times a week to help us babysit so my wife can work. But my mom and my wife make each other nervous. My mom complains to me that my wife is not enthusiastic when she comes to help out. My wife doesn't like the way my mom takes care of my daughter, because my mom stays up till 11pm to watch tv, so my daughter stays up with her (they sleep together). My mom also doesn't like to take her out to the park so she can mingle with the other kids. It is also getting hard for my mom to pick my growing daughter. My mom also cannot come on Sundays because she has to visit my grandparents every Sunday. This bothers my wife too because it means we can't go away for the weekend.
My wife wants to have her mom stay with us instead as a live-in nanny. But my mom is very sensitive and will take this as a rejection. I don't want my mom to feel hurt. My friends are supportive, but I think I might need help.
2006-10-25
09:08:30
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Jentleman
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