I've told my bf numerous times that I want to wait until marriage to have sex. However, when i asked him how he felt if he found the right person, would he do it before marriage and he didn't give me a straight answer. I was talking to a friend yesterday and she had told me that he had mentioned that he would want to have sex before marriage b/c he didn't want to go to college being "inexperienced". When I asked him about this he told me that he had said that but he didn't mean it. I find this hard to believe. It sems to me that he lies to me a lot. Not really about big things but just little things. But what bothers me most about this revelation is that he engaged in sexual acts with his previous gf. Lately, I've found that I've become annoyed with little things about him. He can become a bit paranoid about the government at times and talks about politics...a lot. Interesting at times,but at other times... any advice?
2006-10-25 09:02:53 · 4 answers · asked by thebodyelectric! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he wants some practice before he goes to college, and he is trying to get it on with you. But you hold your ground and don't give in. Wait until you are married. By what you said sounds like he is just going to use you and move on to the next person. Get rid of him. He has already lied to you so that should tell you what type of person he truly is. Go out and find someone who will like you for you and not lie to you and respect your decision on wanting to wait till marriage. Look out for yourself number one.
2006-10-25 09:12:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are losing interest Big Time! You probably owe this guy nothing. It doesn't sound like he has any plans of being true. He doesn't want to be a virgin when he goes to college, what does that mean? He is telling you that he wants to be a Good Time Charlie. Think about it sweet girl!!
2006-10-25 16:16:38 · answer #2 · answered by kayboff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you should tell him the things that bug you and if he doesnt try and do somthing abou it then he isnt worth your time. If he has had sex already then he probubly wont wait to get married
2006-10-25 17:00:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he annoys you...work it out...or reconsider. If you are strictly no-sex before marriage, you are tough. You must be Very selective...you know this, right? And guys who have had sex before marriage probably aren't for you.
2006-10-25 16:07:19 · answer #4 · answered by robert r 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋