Im 20 years old, and my hubby is 34 years old! we are married
i get a baby of 10 month and i dream to be again pregnant to have a second baby!
but he doesnt want at all! he says that it will be hard for us bcus we just start to do our life and sometimes i am lazy! he want to wait 2 years!
but i dont think so! i just ask him sometime to change the underpant of the baby or to help me for food!
i just want we share the thing!
but i know as he works hard i shouldnt ask him to help me! so i wont ask him anymore!
but pls how can i convince him , he is hard to change mind!
and i think about his age also! if we get in 2 years a baby he will be 36 years that start to be not anymore young age!
I hope to have some advice from you!
kisss
2006-10-25 09:01:11 · 13 answers · asked by parisian_rasta_erika 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
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2006-10-25 09:37:45 · answer #1 · answered by raj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a SAHM...my kids are gone to school right now....and my hubby works full time. He is just as responsible for the children when he gets home as you are....assuming you don't sit around all day. He shouldn't have to clean or do laundry or anything, but should help with the kid after work. As far as having another, If he isn't ready...I would wait a couple of years. You are still young. You have plenty of time!
2006-10-25 16:05:44 · answer #2 · answered by #3ontheway! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont yo want to wait? You 10 month old is still a baby! give him as much attention as you can once you have another baby it will be hard for you. If you are on birth control just stop it and dont tell him, I know it sounds horrible to trick him into it but he will be happy when you do get pregnant and like you say he's not getting any younger
2006-10-25 16:13:05 · answer #3 · answered by audrey 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First I would write out a list of all the good reasons you would want to have a kid right now...then write out a list of all the down falls of having a kid right now. Wanting to TTC is very emotional and it is hard when the other party doesn't want to TTC..I know I am in this boat right now. What helps me is sitting down and establishing a goals list and setting a graduation to TTC. You are still very young and he could be seeing a bigger picture that you aren't seeing, so definitely sit down and explain to him why you want another and have him do the same! If you are having a hard time with one kiddo just think about having 2 of them running around! I say wait for one to get out of the diapers before having another, but that is just me. Good luck to you, and don't "convince" him...just sit down with your DH and see his side.
2006-10-25 17:01:42 · answer #4 · answered by Billie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's best to wait at least three yrs between children. If they're too close in age, the sibling rivalry thing will get really old. Wait til the one you got is old enough to help you with the new one.
2006-10-25 16:15:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him without pressuring him, that will only make him say more NO........You are still a young woman..maybe it isn't such a bad idea to wait a couple of years and enjoy some time with hubby. If he doesn't want to you'll just have to wait.
2006-10-25 16:08:26 · answer #6 · answered by Baby Ruth habla español 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at his point of view he's correct it doen't mean that if he's 36 he does not hav the stamina but the life is small so go a head wait for next 6 months and then plan for second baby
2006-10-26 02:39:25 · answer #7 · answered by KIRTI K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with receive your kisss, i would like to sugest you why you are careless about your first baby and your own health. be a good parant and give the full time to your first baby to grow him upto two years minimmum, then only plan to conceive the second.
your husband is absolutely mature father and he is thinking the right thing.
2006-10-26 06:31:09 · answer #8 · answered by Krishna_B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men are like this only I am talking about the majority and leave this age equation alone as 36 isnt too old to be a father at all.
2006-10-25 16:15:39 · answer #9 · answered by raunak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why you want another baby ? Is the property of your husband is too vast that one child is not enough to maintain/signalize it? You should be thankful to your husband that he has given you a child, i know many men who have given their wives dozens of chidren but are living hand to mouth. I thought you are one of the luckiest mother,who has such a cute baby.
2006-10-25 16:11:00 · answer #10 · answered by Live & Let Live! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋