well yestersday was my birthday and my boyfriend told me he kind of hooked up with another girl. i was very devastated and then this morning he asked me to go back with him and then he turned the whole thing around and broke up with me and now he wants me to go back with him. what shall i do? i still love him with all my heart and i still wanna be with him. but i justr can't right now.
2006-10-25 08:47:38 · 7 answers · asked by sherizan l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You let him go and move on. He is not worth it. Any guy that treats you like that is not worth it. I understand that you still love him and that is understandable but a relationship takes more then just loving somebody. He has to love you back as well and treat you well. Trust me, you can do a lot better then this. How do you expect your relationship to work if he does this to you? Do you think that you will ever be able to trust him again? Don't put yourself thru this unnecessary drama and find somebody that will love you for you and treats you the way that you deserve to be treated.
2006-10-25 08:52:47 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he didn't want to buy you a present huh??? So, he waits until after your birthday and then asks you to back with him...mmmmm. doesn't seem like you would ever have a very good life if you ever decided to stay with him, now does it? But that is your decision and I don't think I would give this guy a second chance to hurt me again...I am sorry, it's no tthat I don't think I would...I know I wouldn't....there are somany fish in the sea...I wasn't looking for anyone when I met my boyfriend....and we started out as best friends..and still are and we are going to get married.. But, I know in my heart, that he would never hurt me or come to me and say what your's said to you.....I can't say follow your heart...but listen to your head.....
2006-10-25 08:56:48 · answer #2 · answered by ariermagee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all you are not married to him, sounds like you are a bit young.. SOOO. even though it hurts right now, and you think you love him, go out and live your life for you and not for anyone else. There are plenty of fish in the sea, and you will catch one sooner or later, when you least expect it. Do not worry, it is not the end of the world..
2006-10-25 08:53:24 · answer #3 · answered by sweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a surprise gift that was
Leave him, don't look back
Cheating was bad, telling you on your birthday is cruel. Never stay with a cruel guy, it will only get worse
2006-10-25 08:52:10 · answer #4 · answered by idtshadow 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course you can't be with him. He betrayed your trust and if you take him back he will do it again
2006-10-25 08:49:37 · answer #5 · answered by Mike 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i agree with Wolfman
2006-10-25 08:53:56 · answer #6 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wake up, grow up...you dont need us, you need therapy!
2006-10-25 09:00:47 · answer #7 · answered by RIA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋