2006-10-25 08:44:58 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't bother he was lying before he met you no matter what you think it is true. Just dump him and make it hurt him bad. Move on to the next guy you don't need a liar b/c liars are also cheats and you don't need some horrible STD from that dumbass. Don't be stupid, weak or in denial about this loser. All men no matter what they say think women are idiots on some level, Don't let them think that of you ever. You need to assert yourself. Toughen up find a new guy and dump this one. Your better than that. The only reason he lies to you is because you let him. Gues what his lies are the biggest form of DISRESPECT he can through at you. You should be very insulted because this man thinks your a moron.
There is no 2 ways about it.
2006-10-25 08:49:37 · answer #1 · answered by evilive 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because you can't change a man any more than you can change a woman. If you want to stay with him, and the lies are not that awful, then you need to get a better communication with him. Hard to do, but you got to let him understand that you are uncomfortable with the lying. Only then he will stop lying to. Make him your friend, before a boy friend.
2006-10-25 08:49:01 · answer #2 · answered by Today T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh yikes ... lying in a relationship is no good at all.. you need to have a relationship built with trust or it will fall apart but maybe he just doesnt feel comfortable with being open and telling the truth to you... it might just help if you tell him something about yourself thet you havent told anyone else before and tell him how much you are trusting him with that info.. or you could just tell him that if he dosnt stop lying it wont work out between you two and he needs to change because you want to stay with him and be able to trust him and think that he is telling the truth without lying to you. little white lies in relationships only lead up to cheating so good luck!!
2006-10-25 08:50:32 · answer #3 · answered by grace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because he's not mr potato head. hes not your creation. What makes women think they can conform men to be what they want them to? You can't change him. THis is what you should do. Talk to him. Say if he lies again. The relationship is over. His punishment for lying will be that he can't be with you. He can cause someone else drama with his lies. And then you will know how much he really values your relationship. Because if you are a decent girl at all. There are plenty of honest guys who would love to take his spot.
2006-10-25 08:48:15 · answer #4 · answered by Armond B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you can't change people! If he is lying now he'll lie in the future and about bigger more important things! And just think for every lie you are aware of how many are you still in the dark about? I hope you're practicing safe sex because lying is only the tip of the iceburg.
2006-10-25 08:49:17 · answer #5 · answered by Sublette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is why does he lie? There is no way you can keep him from doing something. You can't change a person. You can point out his lies and if you can't deal with a liar, then move on.
I think some people lie, because they feel like they have nothing to bring to the table. They feel like they are uninteresting with out the lies.
2006-10-25 08:48:20 · answer #6 · answered by heaven o 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well besides the fact already stated that he is a liar, he also has massive control over you if you have stayed with him for 4 years. If you want to stay with him, then go get professional help together...like counseling. You could also make friends with some polynesians and they could go kick his trash...then you will see if he wants to lie to you again.
2006-10-25 08:51:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot get anybody to do something that they do not choose to do. He is a grown man, I assume.... And he will only do what he wants! Common sense will tell you that my dear. It seems like he is not really into the relationship as much as you are. If he was into you or making it work you wouldn't have to try and get him to do anything....He would do it on his on. You should rethink your relationship and what you want in a mate. I wish you luck... I know how it is to want something out of a mate and never get it. It has to be 50/50 babe or it will never work. Trust me!
2006-10-25 08:51:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's constantly lying to you, you probably need to break up with him. A relationship needs to be built on trust. If you can't trust someone, why even bother?
2006-10-25 08:49:28 · answer #9 · answered by Annette J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because he has a pathological mental problem. Your relationship probably won't cure him and its not necessarily your job to cure him; hence enjoy the lying life or decided to end the relationship and find someone who can be more truthful to you. Hmmmm
2006-10-25 08:48:55 · answer #10 · answered by dumb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋