im a 15 yr old girl who has lots of friends,but smetimes i get depressed coz of this loneliness..plz suggest a solution...i need help..plz help me out guys.....
2006-10-25 08:41:15 · 10 answers · asked by akanksha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
hey, actually m 15 n i hve lots o friends...but none whom ii can trust, n also my family aint too good coz i cant open my mind and my heart , n talk to my sis,...neithr mom...i get depressed often...plz help me out guys
2006-10-25 08:50:57 · update #1
also if any of u is quite gud in helping me,,,can i have his or her email id..plz..
2006-10-25 08:52:58 · update #2
My mom showed me your question. I'm sixteen and I know where you're coming from. It's difficult, but if you have even one friend to share your problems with, it helps. You have to be happy with who you are, and not depend on other people's opinions of you, or their company to keep you happy. Counsellors never help me do much other than hate the time I waste on them. Sometimes you may feel like no one cares about you, but there are people, even if you don't know it.
I like discussing and debating things, but there aren't many people that i know who can do that. My intrests are just about everything so if you ever want to talk to me my email is jessicabat07@msn.com and i have an aim sn if you prefer that.
2006-10-25 10:46:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go see a counsellor. I do. I had the same problem, I have alot of friends, but none of which I trust enough to tell all my problems to. But a counsellor doesn't tell anybody anything, not even your parents without your permission. I'm almost 19, and have been talking to a counsellor since I was 16. It has helped me a great deal, and they put me on anti-depressants so I didn't feel like that anymore. Try it, trust me.
2006-10-25 08:44:25 · answer #2 · answered by MaNdYb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was 15 I went threw the same thing. I found that talking to councilor really helped me! It was really easy cause I did not feel judged by them at all. I felt like I could tell him anything and all he would do is try and figure out what the "root" of the problem was. There are free councilors in every city. See what you can find out.
2006-10-25 08:46:13 · answer #3 · answered by linderlu23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about talking to your mom. She loves you and would not want anything bad to happen to you. If not your mom...maybe an aunt, if you have one. You mention that you become very depressed at times because of loneliness. But please remember, family will always be there for you.....there is at least one family member that you can turn to and that you can trust. For me, it was an older sister. She really helped me when I needed it. At first, you may think that your family member is angry with you because of what you're telling them...but they are not. They are just concerned about you, love you and want to look out for you. Hope this suggestion works for you. :-)
2006-10-25 09:47:36 · answer #4 · answered by SWTBRNSGR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no solution to being 15 except aging. I'm not saying that your particular circumstance is just like everyone elses at all, but I will say that it's common of people your age to 'feel' these things. Find the friend who offers the most sincere ear and talk to him or her from time to time. You don't have to unload, even though my may feel like it, but I think you'd find yourself feeling better if you just let yourself open up a little from time to time.
2006-10-25 08:45:39 · answer #5 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray about your feelings of loneliness. It is a void that the people you are friends with can't fill. The only one who can take away the loneliness you have is GOD. So go to him, and have him fill the void, you're feeling. Fill your life with positive things to do, and surround yourself with positive people, that loneliness will be gone in no time at all.
2006-10-25 08:48:58 · answer #6 · answered by ricepat2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you could ask your parents to take you to see a councler, or you could chat online, or you could talk to someone at your school. Sorry you feel alone, it sucks sometimes but you are never really alone!! Plenty of people love and care for you
2006-10-25 08:46:15 · answer #7 · answered by liyah's mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hiya im 13 years old and sometimes i feel like that you shouldnt worry because it is probably hormons and you should speak to your friends and your mum or if you have an older brother or sister.some people have a diaryxxhope my advice helpsxx
2006-10-25 08:46:56 · answer #8 · answered by xpoppyannex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get into a youth chat room and tell the peeps there
2006-10-25 08:42:46 · answer #9 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get some friends
2006-10-25 08:45:27 · answer #10 · answered by allycat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋