once I helped her with something. since then she tells me I owe you very much and bla bla. I dont think I did a very great thing. but she says that it was too kind of me to help her. now she's wanted me to learn her couple of things and I'm gonna do it. but she keeps on telling me "what can I do in return", I've got no answer to this question. what should I do. should I want her to do something for me?. if yes, what ?.
PS: she told me i'll do ANYTHING for you but i dont wanna think about that anything because our relationship is not that intimate & we're both too shy.
2006-10-25 08:35:29 · 7 answers · asked by Sally 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The cycle of life is designed that we all help each other. We do what we can, with what we have, with where we are at in life. Each person does for one another expecting nothing in return. If the person who you helped wants to pay you back, they should instead help the next guy, that comes along in life that needs a favor, and that is how we continue the cycle of life. If we just did things for people expecting to get back...then it is nothing more than selfishness. We all live together in this universe. We must try to help one another, when we can. If every person did one nice thing for another person, who was in need, not expecting or accepting anything in return...but instead went out in the world and saw a need and helped another soul...what a wonderful world full of love we would have. Each of posses unique talents and abilities. We can help those in need. We too may find ourself in a place or time of need, in our lifetime.
Listen to the country song..."Circle of Life". It pretty much tells a story simulating my very sentiments of life. God bless you. Go and spread the love. When someone asks how can I ever repay you...simply say help the next guy and we will consider the debt paid in full.
2006-10-25 08:44:14 · answer #1 · answered by Shayna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can tell her to just pass your blessing onto another in need.That is what I do when I have helped someone,and they want to repay me.I give them the blessing so they can pass it on not pay it back.That is how people should think more often and help the millions of people out there in desperate need of help.
2006-10-25 15:42:19 · answer #2 · answered by gibbyguys 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just start stealing alot of stuff from her, dont take it home, just take it outside when she is not looking...break it and throw it in the trash. Eventually you'll be even.
2006-10-25 15:41:42 · answer #3 · answered by powerful one 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to make dinner and just cuddle and watch a movie or something!! I don't know!
2006-10-25 15:47:32 · answer #4 · answered by mandy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"loosen you up a little" or when you do think of something she can do for you, then ask her... although I think she's giving you a hint of something... how about asking her what she's willing to give you so maybe it can lead to something exciting for both of you!
2006-10-25 15:40:05 · answer #5 · answered by precious1982 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really have to ask this question, don't worry about it, she'll probably change her mind before you get up to asking her.
2006-10-25 15:39:57 · answer #6 · answered by Julian 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her she can cook you a nice dinner.
2006-10-25 15:37:14 · answer #7 · answered by Kelli C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋