My so called bf decided to give it another shot, so he came to town to stay for the week and we went out I took him shopping because he doesn't have alot right now because he is strugglin wit his business, so I brought him a coat, boots, jackets, paid for his plane ticket home and pocket money, when he was here all we did was argue, and I didn't even feel wanted by him, or when I around him, we didn't have much sex when he was here, and it really didn't seem like old times. we were only broke up a month from a 2yr relationship, and he moved away 10 months ago to start his business with his family. he doesn't call that much and when he does it's to say he needs something. what do you think? he claims that he loves me, he showed it when he was here, we were living together at the time 4 a yr. and a half. that was when he had a job, and was paying bills at my house. I think that he needs to come home and get his old job back, b/c the business didn't work out.
2006-10-25 08:20:53 · 27 answers · asked by Honey83 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're a stand by g/f to him. If he has no other woman that will take care of his needs, both physical and sexual. You're the tops in his heart. If he has another somewhere, he's going to be with her.
Tell your good time Charlie that it's been real and it's been fun, but it hasn't been real fun.
I think you're a good woman at heart who's being taken advantage of by a rat. Go out and find yourself a real man. One that looks at you with loving eyes from a loving heart. There's one out there.
You're probably going to have to kiss a bunch of frogs before you find your prince. Just start to learn the difference between a prince and a "bull"frog.
2006-10-25 08:27:38 · answer #1 · answered by James B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might be better off if he doesn't come home if he's only going to move back to borrow money from you or to argue with you. It sounds like you're a very nice and independent girl. Why do you want to be with this guy if he asks so much of you and on top of it all doesn't give you love or affection? I think you could do MUCH better and should let this guy go asap and find yourself a nice man!
2006-10-25 15:30:21 · answer #2 · answered by texirocks 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't wanna break it down 2 u like that but you are. There is no way I would let an old boyfriend come back into my life. Let alone, take his a** shopping! I mean come on. All the stuff y'all went through and you are still trying to make it work. Take a tip from someone who knows...what wouldn't work at first, won't work a second time
xoxo
beauty and brains
2006-10-25 15:24:45 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Chocol@t3 K!$$3$♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, you should just think about moving on. He seems to be a user and thats what he is doing to u using you for what he can get out of you. A person can only do what you allow them to do. I wouldn't have given him anything unless he was homeless. He is your ex for a reason so why would you go backwards instead of moving forwards. Just let it go and move on with your life. I'm not telling you what you want to hear I know. I'm telling you the truth and you need to hear the truth. He doesn't seem to be any good and why would you let him treat you like dirt? You are a CHILD OF GOD and you deserve to be treated like a QUEEN. DON'T SETTLE FOR SOMEONE THAT YOU HAVE DATED IN THE PAST BECAUSE HE IS IN YOUR PAST FOR A REASON. HOLD YOUR HEAD HIGH AND MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE. HE DOESN'T SEEM TO BE WORTH IT ANYWAY. I HOPE IT ALL WORKS OUT FOR YOU.
2006-10-25 15:28:35 · answer #4 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's using you, your a sweet person and your hopeful. Your heart is still in it and your looking for reasurance, i wish i could tell you other wise i really do. But this is going to tear you up some, more then it has been I would tell you to move on keep him as a friend and find someone to treat you nice and take you shopping!
2006-10-25 15:27:58 · answer #5 · answered by Juleette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all......what the hell were you thinking?? You bought him all those things and he does nothing for you? You are being used, and hoodwinked out of your money. What kind of question is this if he only calls you when he needs money. You may think he loves you but he's not showing it. Stop giving him money until he gets his act together.
2006-10-25 15:26:16 · answer #6 · answered by Angie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah i'm sorry to tell you but he's just using you sweetie i mean think about it he only cllas you when he needs or wants something from you but when everything's good he doesn't call and if he truly loved you he would want to be with you no matter what he would even insist that you move near him or whatnot so forget this guy and move in to somebody who would love and appreciate you for you and not what you can offer them financially
2006-10-25 15:25:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
U are being played GF big time he is not man enough that he can't save money and get his own clothes and etc no way would I let a man use me like that listen it sounds like you both have moved on and please next time do not be with a man that is not man enough to take care of himself that is wrong !!
2006-10-25 15:23:08 · answer #8 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah hes a bum and hes using you. Its time to confess that the relationship has faded past what you really wanted out of him. B his friend but dont give him anything more then that.
2006-10-25 15:31:58 · answer #9 · answered by ~#1 MaMa~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that he is using you for your money. he is a man golddigger and if he is argueing with you all the time he doesn't love you. he is just saying that so he can get more stuff. love is a strong word it when men say that they love you it makes you want to give them every thing in the because like i said it is a strong word.
2006-10-25 15:28:35 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋