I work a full time job as a RN in a hospital. I raised 2 kids alone with no financial support from their dad. I pay my bills on time and live within my means. I own my own home and drive a farily new car. I dont ask him for anything.
We have dated for 4 3/4 years. He is always telling me things are not my business. He accused me of looking thru his house while he was gone and has not been the least bit suppotive over the last 2 weeks while I have been recieving obscene phone calls. Sometimes 20 a day. He accuses me of being responsible for them.
I have never looked thru his house and I have never encouraged anyone to make obscene phone calls to my house.
He has just been being an *** lately.
How would you handle the insults?
2006-10-25 08:15:05 · 6 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well,first he is insecure from the sounds of it.Second,why is he worried if you are looking around his house,after all you have been dating how long?!I am sorry to say,but if you were my girl,You would be welcomed to anything and everything I have as your own.Third,maybe he is on the other end pranking you to try and catch you at his own game because of his own insecurity.You should turn the tables,and give him a taste of his own meds!
2006-10-25 08:21:59 · answer #1 · answered by gibbyguys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
form what you are telling me he sounds like he is paranoid i think there must be something going on that he dosent want you to know and what iam trying to say is he might be cheating on you maybe he is scared you find something in his house that you are not supposed to find and those calls might be form other girls and if he makes you fell that way than something is deffenitly wrong with him something must have happened you dont deserve this kind of acting and attention and pain talk to him and try to find out a little about whats going on if he doesent want to say anything you might find the reason why he is acting that way well good luck!
2006-10-25 15:22:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he really dosn't like you! It seems that he just dosn't care about what you feel and how you've been feeling about this. Like you said he's being a *** lately so dump the chump. He is not respecting you he is not respecting your answers or even your descisions just dump him and believe me you will have a better life not dealing with this?!?!
*TOODLES*
2006-10-25 15:22:06 · answer #3 · answered by squeeks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Amiga mia... no,no,no,no... you don't have to handle anything. Move on ASAP. Do it now, for tomorrow is late,If you don't do it soon, then you will regret it. Don't handle "anyone" who insults you, alright?.
You are worthy, you deserve a better man ok.
2006-10-25 15:23:10 · answer #4 · answered by NA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like its time for you to move on.
2006-10-25 15:17:58 · answer #5 · answered by WillO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's trying to break up with you. take the hint and your dignity and leave.
men are such cowards and instead of breaking up with you, they will make things so unbearable that YOU break it off with him.
2006-10-25 15:20:03 · answer #6 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋