Ok ive been talking to this girl the works at a restraunt down the road from where i work, She seems really sweet but says she is living with her bf and wants me to get a place so that she has somewhere to go when she leaves him. I dont really know her well enough to live with her but am interested in trying out a relationship with her but whos to say she wouldnt do the same to me with the next guy she starts talking to at her place of work if we do start dating?
2006-10-25 08:09:14 · 14 answers · asked by Jeremy F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should tell her that you want to get to know her a little better as a person before you guys, move in with each other. Tell her that you like her a lot but you just rather take things slow that's all. If she really likes you then she should understand.
2006-10-25 08:15:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems fishy to me. I wouldn't do it.
It's one thing to date, but to live with each other is too much. It's sort of odd that she is even suggesting that to you.
Don't date her while she is still with that guy. It's bad karma and it will come back to you.
It would be okay to live with her if you were just friends and you weren't interested in her romantically. Also you barely know her so it might not be a good idea to live with her on that basis either.
2006-10-25 15:15:24 · answer #2 · answered by acvader 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better step away from that one. If she wants to leave her boyfriend she needs to be able to support herself. Sounds like she is just looking for the next victim. Do not under any circumstance "try out a relationship with her" by living with her. And you are right, she will do it to you to.
2006-10-25 15:13:15 · answer #3 · answered by Special Ethel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That does not sound good. Your living conditions are your concern, until you have a serious relationship.
I would expect her to get her own place and if she is interested in dating you then you can date her on an even playing field.
Take care,
Troy
2006-10-26 08:27:21 · answer #4 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say dont do it. Shes looking for a storage place for her and her crap. Shes going to use you. If she wants a relationship with you I would try that first instead of just moving her right on it. Dont rush things with her. Gaurd your heart.4
2006-10-25 15:12:24 · answer #5 · answered by Kelli C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't seem that sweet to me!!! Spots of a leopard don't change! If she has a BF already, he's not going to like you very much....sounds like trouble!
2006-10-25 15:13:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where has your brain gone too? Pluto! She's out to find the catch of the week. Stay clear or you may find yourself with a hook in your mouth.
2006-10-25 15:16:00 · answer #7 · answered by ranger1562002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, don't let her use you, she just wants a place to stay when she dumps him, but you never know, she might really be interested in you! Good Luck!
2006-10-25 15:11:32 · answer #8 · answered by SuzyBelle04 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try out a relationship with her but DON"T move in together until you find out who she really is. seems that she's using you because it would be convenient for her.
2006-10-25 15:12:46 · answer #9 · answered by sassy6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd wonder if you wanted to buy a really nice bridge that I happen to have for sale.
2006-10-25 15:11:54 · answer #10 · answered by Trollbuster 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋