2006-10-25 08:00:54 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
I think one should respect marriage and all that goes with it.
I am against it.
2006-10-25 08:03:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I cannot believe all of these "you gotta try it before you buy it" kinds of answers. Yes, I had sex before marriage. For me I don't agree or disagree. It happens--what can you say?
My husband (the only guy I have slept with) and I had sex before marriage not to try it before we got hitched but because we felt it was the right time. What a stupid reason to break up with someone.
When my husband and I first started having sex he was horrible! Did that turn me away, no. We worked on it and now we are great. Having sex is important (to a degree) in a marriage but not a make or break deal.
2006-10-25 08:06:15 · answer #2 · answered by .vato. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a loaded question. Most important, is it your OWN feeling or ideal when you do have sex for the first time? Exactly how old are you when your making this mature decision? If you think your "in-love" at 13, what happens when your "in-love" again at 14, 16 and so on? I know hormones start to fly in the air early in a relationship, so you need to be prepared too. I believe if a couple is engaged to be married, they should know all their is about each other, before they make the final leap.
2006-10-25 08:25:14 · answer #3 · answered by sue d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I am a firm believer in abstinence until marriage and so far I am keeping that promise that I made to myself some time ago.
(Yes, I am a guy...and I am straight).
Sex is almost something sacred and it is definitely special. And I think that everyone here (regardless if you had sex before marriage or not) will agree with me that sex has more aspects to it than just physical satisfaction.
Personally, I would rather share that with someone whom I chose to spend the rest of my life with.
2006-10-25 08:11:54 · answer #4 · answered by The Prince 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Each person is different and nobody should have the right to tell you what to do. But in my opinion I think that "sex" is taken why to lightly these days. Call me old fashion but a sexual relationship should be a token of your love for someone not just a spur of the moment decision, b/c you feel like it or b/c everyone else is doing it. And when I say love I mean the real deal, where you love the good and bad things about your partner. Oh, and one more thing don't let anyone make you feel like you have to or that you should feel obligated
2006-10-25 08:24:16 · answer #5 · answered by sweetie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not married, and have had sex, not so much because I think you should try out sex, but because I have had sex with my boyfriends because it felt right, I have also gone out with men that I have never had sex with.
I do think that the way a man bahaves in bed tells you a lot about his true character, but that does not mean I would break up with a guy because our first time having sex is terrible, it usually takes time for it to become good because you have to get to know each others likes and dislikes.
I'm not sure I would get married without having sex, basically because I cannot imagine getting married to a guy with whom it has not felt right to have sex with.
Having said that, if I met a guy who wanted to wait, I would not force the issue, nor would I break it off with him. But I would have to have a good long think about whether I wanted to marry him just so we can have sex and whether I want to have sex with him because I can´t, or because it actually feels right.
2006-10-25 08:10:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel if you love someone then you should express how you feel to them. I have had sex before marriage and I am now happily married. I believe if you have the right reasons for having sex then go for it.
2006-10-25 08:02:49 · answer #7 · answered by Keith Perry 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. It is too intimate/special/sacred an act to do with anyone other than your spouse. It also sets this relationship apart from any previous relationships. Lets not forget about STDs and babies that need families.
If you don't have sex with anyone but your spouse, you will not have anything to compare it to, so it will not be dissapointing compared having sex with X person. When you are married you are committed enough to each other to work out sexual differences by communicating and experimenting. You'll become each other's best partner.
2006-10-25 08:17:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes. But I also believe in Santa Claus and the Easter Bunny. And the Great Pumpkin.
2006-10-25 08:02:45 · answer #9 · answered by Jenyfer C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Sex is an important part of marriage. What happens if it really sucks?
2006-10-25 08:02:14 · answer #10 · answered by Shell 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sex is a major part of a marriage.. and if you don't know ahead of time if they're the right sexual partner for you.. it could lead to some huge problems.
2006-10-25 08:03:14 · answer #11 · answered by missmieke87 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋