a guy who says to me 'there are one thousand more Sarah's in the world, but only one of you and I can't afford to lose you.'
Sarah (not her real name!) is the guys gf. I am hist best friend, but there has always been something more between us. Do I just move on? It's quite unfair I think!
2006-10-25 07:58:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
aah I should add more details...
We lost touch for a while and I assumed he wasn't bothered about me anymore, so I found someone else. After he heard that, he met Sarah. I'm no longer with my guy, but he is still with his girl though he says things are 'rocky.'
I am in love with him and he says he's in love with me, but is scared of '******* up.'
Guys do my head in!!
2006-10-25 08:09:25 · update #1
This guy obviously sees girls as sex objects...there IS something more between the two of you because he knows he cant have you..tell this guy to stop talking like that to you..you see him as a brother and nothing else..Do not fall for his cheap lines.
2006-10-25 08:06:52 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be friends with this guy, because the only thing you guys have between each other is his girlfriend.The one that he is still with, tell him to go ,and you move on with your life because the only thing that would come of this is you crying in the end wondering why you let this guy use you. Find a man and let this boy grow up.
2006-10-25 08:24:35 · answer #2 · answered by BASHFUL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you think there is something more between you, doesn'y mean he feels the same way. He obviously cares alot for this 'Sarah' so back off. If he's your best friend don't you want to see him happy with her? Move on, and find someone else.....
2006-10-25 08:00:43 · answer #3 · answered by MaNdYb 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
gurl....welcome to the world of guys!! tell ya what..wen a guy dates 2 or more girls- its absolutely fine..they would go to the end of the world...say the most hideous and romantic things JUST ta set her in track ,BUT if the gurl has a guy even as a best frend..they go nuts....anyways, as for u, i think the best frnd thing might jus be an external illusion to explore more....watch out!
2006-10-25 08:02:25 · answer #4 · answered by tittoo 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he meant that he doesn't want to loose a good friend over a girlfriend? If you move on, you may ruin your friendship.
At least make sure he doesn't have a girlfriend if you desides to move on... Good luck!
2006-10-25 08:01:45 · answer #5 · answered by Bea 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe hes saying theres a thousand more of your name to someone else also.You might want to think about that.
2006-10-25 08:06:57 · answer #6 · answered by star_utsf 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
THINK listen to his chat up line he probably says this to sarah everyday!!! MOVE ON!!!
2006-10-25 08:04:21 · answer #7 · answered by Mi Yah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, sweet girl, move on! He is playing you both. Find a guy who is worth your time!
2006-10-25 08:00:35 · answer #8 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are far more Sarah's than one thousand! What's his point anyway? Does he want to shag you too?
2006-10-25 08:00:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know why people are saying "move on", it is not like they're married, and I bet you they won't get married. Don't give up.
2006-10-25 08:02:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋