2006-10-25 07:51:01 · 27 answers · asked by Fire 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not always...they're pretty nice if they know they're getting some.
But before and after that - yeah, pretty cruel.
2006-10-25 07:56:11 · answer #1 · answered by Deleted 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, they are not ALWAYS cruel... Some may seem that way, but it is more than likely that you have chosen guys who treat you cruel when HE doesn't get what HE wants from you.
Would you be drawn to a guy who kicks dogs, takes children's toys or candy, screams at old ladies all the time? I would hope your answer is no. Therefore with that in mind, you must have been drawn to a guy when he wasn't like that. So the question is, "Why do some guys seem to turn cruel to me?"
Because those guys only wanted something for themselves and when you did not provide it, they turned against you.
2006-10-25 15:02:31 · answer #2 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not all guys are cruel There is some nice ones out there. Always be true to yourself and if someone is being cruel to you get rid of them. You don't need the hassle. Only be with someone that makes you happy cause that's all that matters. If you only finding idiots you may need to change the places where you meet people.
2006-10-25 14:56:20 · answer #3 · answered by fr2fish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys can be cruel, but that's only if they only want sex. There are alot of good guys out there, and I've met some. They hang out at good places like the recreation center or places like that. Cruel guys hang out at the club and the bar. You just gotta know where to look
2006-10-25 14:53:59 · answer #4 · answered by Déjà Vu 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when anything goes wrong its always about u.. 1st assesed it and then try to resolve it.. if u can't then forgive urself for doing the mistake.. n move on..
in this situation.. u r letting the guys ur with to act cruel to u.. u could have stop it by setting boundaries on what/how much u can accept and what/how much u can give.. I hope it helps n doesnt confuse u much.
2006-10-25 15:38:48 · answer #5 · answered by Johny B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men and women are cruel alike.........but only if they are raised that way.My parents taught me to be kind,honest,gentle and treat people(both sexes) equally,and with dignity and respect.Additionally,I was raised to be gentle with the feelings of women,as they are sometimes sensitive to the way things are said. I will add, women (some anyways) have acid tongues,and can be equally,if not more cruel than men.They are definately more vengeful!
2006-10-25 15:01:23 · answer #6 · answered by gibbyguys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me women are just as cruel.
2006-10-25 14:54:08 · answer #7 · answered by The It Girl ∆☻乐 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We're always cruel.
2006-10-25 14:52:21 · answer #8 · answered by stevekc43 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It may be just you. think about it are all the man you date about the same. You are probably picking different men but with the same personality. I have been doing this for years until i realize what i was doing. You can just say had had a taste for ***holes.
2006-10-25 14:57:06 · answer #9 · answered by L@M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Teen age boys and college boys, ya, your right, most men are never taught how to be men, how much time do we actually spend with our fathers? were a generation raised by women, and we don't have the faintest idea how to treat a women, my advice to you is Go to Church, find a nice guy, someone who has been taught how to love his wife, bride unconditionally
God Bless
2006-10-25 14:54:14 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋