i was using my boyfriends phone this morni and a text message pop up it read can i come over i want to ****. on read this i confronted him and his explanation was he has nothing with this girl and she is a friend that he knew a long time ago and nothing happened between them. he said he lost contact with her and then meet her at the party, she then asked him if he had the same number which he did not and he then gave her is new number . what are your views cause i know there is some thing more to this , should i confront this girl,and ask her may be she will tell me what happening.
2006-10-25 07:36:22 · 6 answers · asked by passage 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He could be telling the truth, but being a man, he's lying, most girls just don't txt some one that used to friends, something like that, unless somethings going on, What you need to do is watch him very closely for a week, see if he has any unexplained absences, or he don't call you like he used to, if he drops you any typical signs, break up with him, you deserve better
2006-10-25 07:42:36 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats str8 bull. He's lying. If that was the case, ask him to send her a message saying that he has a girl and she needs to quit playing like that. If she still sends something rude, then he was lying. Maybe he didn't do anything with her yet, but they probably would have after that text message. Say you really don't like that, and you want him to stop comunicating with her, and if he refuses or does it anyway then something is definetely up
2006-10-25 07:41:15 · answer #2 · answered by Déjà Vu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am in the same shoes as you are. the best thing you can do is to trust your guy yet to keep your distance persay! do hold your guard up in case he is playing you and if so you are not so hurt! my bf for example is good friends or so he claims with this girl-lets call her J-and he met her i dont know when and has her number i think and her email address and maybe IM! i know zero info about this person except that i know her so yeah i am also getting crap from my bf with we "are just friends". if your guy starts to behave weird like to buy you gifts out of the blue and to spoil you like he has never done maybe it is because he is cheating on you! and if he accuses you in any sort of way of cheating on him then you know tha he is totally screwing you over because what a guy does he blames it on the girl even though he is the one playing you! try to meet your bf's friends and you might not end up being so paranoid or otherwise you two might be headed for splitsville if you continue the "are youtelling me the truth"thing!plus he does not seem like he cares that he is dating you and wants his cake and to eat it too and so if i were you i would just walk away because you never know what happened between the two of thm like he cheated on you for example!
2006-10-25 07:47:52 · answer #3 · answered by icycrissy27blue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, honey, but your bf is full of sh*t!!! No girl is going to send a guy they are just friends with a text like that! You should confront her to find out what's really going on, and maybe you can have her with you when you confront him again so he can't lie!!
2006-10-25 07:46:26 · answer #4 · answered by Aryka S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He gave her his NEW number, that should tell you something. If he wasn't interested he would have told her to call him on his OLD number and walked away. You could call the other girl, she may not even know about you. I would probably call her and then dump the jerk. Then he wouldn't have either one of you.
2006-10-25 07:41:42 · answer #5 · answered by sleepless in NC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know what the truth is..
2006-10-25 07:44:10 · answer #6 · answered by Superwoman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋