2006-10-25 07:09:24 · 43 answers · asked by mandolin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I would say both spouses and parents are important. You can substitute your spouse but you can't replace your invaluable parents.
2006-10-25 07:18:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
Wife n husband are the reflections of each other so there is no point in choosing a spouse and one has to give top priority to parents.
2006-10-26 07:45:55 · answer #2 · answered by smiley 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Any relation is important, to be good parents you just cant ignore your spouse and it vice versa. You have to keep everyone happy, it only that you should realise at some point in life one will need you a little more than the other.
2006-10-26 19:15:38 · answer #3 · answered by Cool gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and the rest of the question is? you know the part where you say what it is that you're talking about? If you're married...your husband/wife and kids are more important than and other. Mother's and dad's are important, but, the vows say, let no man put asunder....you and your spouse come first.
2006-10-25 07:48:47 · answer #4 · answered by sred 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you are married then the Bible (Gen 2 v 24) say's; "A man will leave his father and mother and be united with his wife and they will become one flesh (this is not just meant to be in the physical sense)".
If you are married then your spouse is the priority as you will go through life together, whereas your father and mother will go through their lives together.
Yes, you need to honour your father and mother, but not to the context of unclebilly's answer. It is not right to hold your parents in a position over your spouse. I have seen divorces occur when this takes place.
2006-10-25 07:32:21 · answer #5 · answered by blue boy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-05 05:34:12 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you took your vows you took each other as husband and wife. Parents are only mentioned in the ceremony as, "Who gives this child away?". You both are given to each other and your parents become secondary to that. Even the Bible tells you that!
2006-10-25 12:03:03 · answer #7 · answered by ajkoolkats 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
husband he comes before anyone else that's why I married him my parents have each other and they should be the most important person in eachother's life too.
Now if you would have asked husband or kids I would pick my kids cause I can't live without my children but I can live without my hubby, lol
2006-10-25 07:11:26 · answer #8 · answered by cutiepie81289 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
My opinion its parents. You can't divorce them, they will always be there for you. Husband/wife will love you and be there for you too, but for some parents are there your whole life. Although some circumstances allow your husbamd/wife to be more important, either cause your parents are deceased, or abusive. Depends totally how each persons living situation is.
2006-10-25 07:12:39 · answer #9 · answered by lebowbrad 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
hi!
im french girl!
and my view to think is to know that ur parent will always be there for you !
and if ur husband is really honest man with you and make you happy life so normaly there's no probleme!
and don't listen ppl what they say sometimes, bcus could laid in the wrong way in your life!
sometimes parents like to say bad thing on the one we love! and that not good to listen to that! just see urself and after u can dicided!
ur parent cannot decided at ur place!
it doesnt mean ur parent is not important!
bcus more important is u be happy in ur life!
ur husband and parent are the most important! (kids also)
2006-10-25 08:42:31 · answer #10 · answered by parisian_rasta_erika 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Husband or wife ...Because you are going to spend the rest of your life with your partner and maybe 20-25 years of the entire life with your parents.I am not saying you have to forget about your parents or ignore them .You should respect them always. But I am saying that you have to listen to the needs of your partner and try to be there for him/her.The partner is the one who is with you and understand your needs and your lacks.
2006-10-25 07:14:23 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋