2006-10-25 07:07:15 · 16 answers · asked by anklebiter 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DONT THINK ABOUT IT JUST DO IT THE WORST THAT CAN HAPPEN IS HE SAYS NO DONT BE AFRAID OF REJECTION ITS GOIN TO HAPPEN TO U FOR THE REST OF UR LIFE SO GO FOR IT HONEY.
2006-10-25 07:14:19 · answer #1 · answered by cowgirl u 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How do you ask a guy out when you are afraid of being rejected?
The same way you fly without leaving the ground. In other words you can't.
Rejection happens from time to time, it's one of life's more humbling experiences. But what doesn't kill you will only make you stronger. Go for it! I'm sure you'll live if he says no.
Good luck!
2006-10-25 14:14:29 · answer #2 · answered by Ben R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on a number of factors, such as how you come in contact with him, is this someone you work with, someone who provides servicies, a neighbor, friend, etc. Fear of rejection is common to us all....but it's all part of the 'game'. You could ask if he plans to attend some local event or you could suggest that he join you at an event that you have tickets to (that someone cancelled on you at the last minute) in order to lessen the blow if he does reject you. And if he has other plans when you approach him or ask him to join you....I suggest you wait and see if he asks you out after that within a short period. Some guys prefer to do the 'asking', so if he rejects your invite and doesn't ask you out himself....he's either interested in someone else or doesn't want to date you. But, remember....no guts/no glory. Go for it. Good luck.
2006-10-25 14:14:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just do. everybody is always afraid of being rejected but sometimes u just have to take that chance and go for it. whether u ask him out in a letter or better yet in person. u never know if u dont take a chance. so good luck and just go with what ur heart tells u
2006-10-25 14:13:02 · answer #4 · answered by jelly1505 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the thing about asking someone out. It's special, it means something because you're taking a chance at being rejected, which is why it means so much when the other person says yes.
2006-10-25 14:10:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys all ready talk then just ask him what's he doing on (pick a day) and just ask him if he's interested going to this new restaurant with you since none of your girlfriends wanna go with you , maybe mention that it would be your treat ...
If he sais okay then you need to make sure you show him a great time so that the next time he asks you out !!
Best of luck to you !!
2006-10-25 14:30:49 · answer #6 · answered by ELEN G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be bold! Try new things! Guys like it when they're chased after, too. Just try to work up the courage to start up a conversation. Then, if it goes good ask if he has plans one day and if he wants to hang! Good luck!
2006-10-25 14:11:17 · answer #7 · answered by shondak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way 2 ask out a guy when ur afraid of gettin' rejected, would b 2 write a letter or note to that person tellin' 'em how u feel,and get sum1 u can trust 2 give it 2 him, and wait to see wat happens. its better than gettin' rejected face-2-face.
2006-10-25 14:13:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
since when is it the girls responsibility to ask guys out??? I can see if its in CA, since all the boys there are little punks, but I guess being a "man" isn't what it used to be. tsk tsk. If I liked you, and you liked me, all you would have to do is hint you're interested, then I would run the ball all the way to the endzone!!!
2006-10-25 14:10:58 · answer #9 · answered by jackalope_00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should let him ask you out. That way your not rejected. If he likes you he will ask you out.
good luck
2006-10-25 14:09:20 · answer #10 · answered by CMA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋