i have been such an idiot lately to this gurl. and i've been riends with her for like 3 years and i think she still likes me but i dont know sor sure. but i've been such an idoit if i ask her out she might say no. should i tell her that i love her?
2006-10-25 07:06:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try with dating her first. give her a chance to see where she stands as far as her feelings go. Give her a chance to see what her feelings are toward you. Date her for a while, then tell her. You have a better chance of her reciprocating those feelings if you get into the dating scene first. Keep in mind though, you can't make someone fall in love with you, so if she says no and doesn't love you, you need to move on and find someone else. Shoot for the best, but expect the worst. The worst she is going to say is she just wants to be friends. Good Luck!
2006-10-25 07:15:34 · answer #1 · answered by redheadedmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course dear, how do u say u`r an idiot??? The girl might be having gr8 thoughts about u and her...three years she has come to know u and is still a friend of u`rs that means that she approves to u`r thoughts and feelings. So there`s no reason that she wouldn`t accept u, in fact she might be waiting for the day when u`ll go and tell her.........So MAN GET READY AND GO AHEAD without any fear......She is yours!!!
2006-10-25 14:12:03 · answer #2 · answered by Friend always there 4 u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way! Sounds like there are bigger issues going on between you two. Besides if you have been being an idiot towards her lately, unless she is completely dumb, do you really think she will believe you? Start with apologizing for being an idiot and see where that takes you. Probably not far. From how it sounds this is over before it started.
2006-10-25 14:11:34 · answer #3 · answered by goingtosoco 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe take it slow... just ask her out first. Jumping up with a sudden "I love you!" without letting her figure out where her emotions for you are might scare her away. Good luck!
2006-10-25 14:08:02 · answer #4 · answered by Rebecca 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell her you love her unless you REALLY mean....if you were being an idiot that could make things worse not better.
2006-10-25 14:11:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you love a woman you tell her that she's really wanted
When you love a woman you tell her that she's the one
'Cause she needs somebody to tell her that you'll always be together
So tell me if you really, really, really love this woman... you've got to tell her that you love her...
(listen to Bryan Adam's song)
2006-10-25 14:19:48 · answer #6 · answered by ely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww, umm im sure if you say sorry she will forgive you. And make sure when you tell her you love her it is not creepy. Goodluck!!
2006-10-25 14:12:30 · answer #7 · answered by Ashley W. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, no once can know how you feel, unless you express them in words, or action.
2006-10-25 14:08:47 · answer #8 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok it totally depends... do you truely love her??? if so then ask her out... take her to dinner... and tell her that you love her and you have been blind to and didnt know how to tell her... you tell her you love her you want her and then ask her to be your girlfriend... oh and flowers never hurt...
2006-10-25 14:14:09 · answer #9 · answered by jeans0079 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i say YES..but always expect the worst and and hope for the best
goodluck
2006-10-25 14:10:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋