hi all i got a problem, see if anyone can help me out with this please :)
i work in a small office block in london, and see this guy everyday and get along with him really well, hes single and i know he likes me, ive been dropping hints to him for weeks now like touching his arm, going out of my way just to see him for 5 minutes, fetching him into my office to fix something etc, he was in my office the other day and i decided to tell him about my mate whos told me i need a man because i work too much, but when i told this guy he turned around and said "do you have the time for man with all the work you do", and i said "they mean i must make time for a BF, like get my head off work and onto some think else like a BF.
but then he just said he got to go fix something somewhere else and left!! i flirt with him all the time but no end result :( i think hes just really shy, any ideas any body to get this moving???
thanks
2006-10-25 07:04:47 · 10 answers · asked by ken21london 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Obviously he's not interested.
2006-10-25 07:07:59 · answer #1 · answered by mstrywmn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be surprised if he has no intrest in you.It really dont sound like he likes you and you are throwing yourself at a man who shows no signs of wanting you.Take the hint and give up.Men like a little flirting but you are over duing it.When he question if you have time for a man I think he was letting you know in a nice way to let him be.Then when you said you must make time for a man and he said he got to go fix something somewhere else and left,That was his sign he knows what you are getting at and is not interested.
2006-10-25 07:14:04 · answer #2 · answered by darlene100568 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep flirting! If he's as shy as you say, it will mean the world for him to finally be able to ask you out. And maybe that's better for you both if you end up in a real relationship with each other? Good luck!
2006-10-25 07:08:34 · answer #3 · answered by Bea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's shy just ask him out for a drink after work looks like you'll have to make a move first it sounds like you've been waiting to long and he's not getting the hints.
2006-10-25 07:08:11 · answer #4 · answered by MANC & PROUD 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might be shy or maybe he just doesn't want to know ,the signals you send out have a bearing on this for a man .Why don't you ask him out for a drink /meal/walk in the park find out what his interests are.You might be pushing to hard back off a bit but certainly ask him or you Will never know.
2006-10-25 08:22:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you made the hints..but most men that I talk to, have no idea when a woman is flirting or hinting about something...unless they jump naked into their laps...then they think that maybe this woman might like them...but he still isn't sure lol...
With that said...why don't you ask him out?...ask him to coffee or lunch...it's less threating...doesn't put as much pressure on the "date" thing...if he says yes, then take it from there...hope this helps...good luck to you :)
2006-10-25 07:15:25 · answer #6 · answered by Luv_bunny 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he has a girlfriend, find that out, be really kind and look your best, don't be too outgoing with him for a while so that he feels he's hurt your feelings a little
2006-10-25 07:08:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tuffy. Men dont get suttle thats for sure, I will say this invite him out like just 'Friends's' .... And go from there. Unless your ballsy enough to ask him out proper..
ps... Men dont get suttle! i cannot over state that enough. So many times ive had girls come say to me 'You know, i used to really fancy you..'
I had no idea! For real....
2006-10-25 07:16:36 · answer #8 · answered by LaMOi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So quit playing games - you ask him out.
2006-10-25 07:10:53 · answer #9 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him out yourself....what's the worse he can say...no
the answer is always no if you don't ask!!
2006-10-25 07:08:29 · answer #10 · answered by jagergirl_1313 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋