What's more ideal in a man, the LOVER type or the PROVIDER type? PLEASE DON'T SAY BOTH, or a little of both or a little mix...
choose only one and defend your ground...
2006-10-25 07:03:39 · 8 answers · asked by Squall_22 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
provider, no money no honey sex is not everything but living is
2006-10-25 07:06:17 · answer #1 · answered by Me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me it would be the provider type. I have the lover type right now and while I love him more than life itself, he is not able to provide and it really sucks. Makes the loven strained and unwanted. I would probably be more loving myself if I was better provided for.
Truth of the matter....the grass is always greener on the other side. There is no win to this answer. If you have one you want the other or think the other would be better. It's called life.
2006-10-25 14:06:55 · answer #2 · answered by Silly ol Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every girl want to find love, once that girl finds love she wants her family to begin and she wants her to love to become her provider. So in other words you've GOT to be both of them. Provide for her and your family but then also you've got to be a good lover to her also. Don't let the flame burn out because you're married with children, keep it lit for as long as you can.
2006-10-25 14:07:22 · answer #3 · answered by jaide1108 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say a lover. Who needs a provider when I am perfectly capable of providing for myself?
2006-10-25 14:21:54 · answer #4 · answered by Gonzo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would chose the lover type. Only because afterwards, he would want to provide for me.
2006-10-25 14:09:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would want a provider because he wants wants to be with me, then I could turn him into a lover
2006-10-25 14:06:29 · answer #6 · answered by Tiffany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I I had to chose I would remain single, but I prefer the provider type right now
2006-10-25 14:05:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MY HUSBAND IS BOTH!!
BUT SINCE YOU WANT ME TO CHOOSE, I WOULD SAY THE PROVIDER. ESPECIALLY IF YOU HAVE KIDS.
2006-10-25 14:08:08 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋