I want to be with a girl who is already taken. We're good friend, but that's all, what should I do?
2006-10-25 06:48:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends on what you consider "taken" if it's just boyfriend and girlfriend then I say talk to her and tell her how you feel. If she is engaged or married - then don't say anything. There was this guy that I was really good friend with in college and we hung out all the time - but never dated. I eventually got married and he was the DJ at my wedding. He finally got married and I was supposed to be in his wedding but got kicked out because I told him not to marry her.... then I got divorced and he got divorced..and one day - out of the blue- after knowing him for 14 years - he kissed me. I asked him why and he said he was waiting for me to send him a signal and I never did......we dated for 5 years and now we are married ( for 2 years and counting) and expecting a baby Feb 2......... I wasted all that time........... I am so happy now......... TAKE A CHANCE
2006-10-25 07:01:48 · answer #1 · answered by jachooz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's 6 billion people in the world almost half women. Why focus on 1 of 3 billion that you'll never get. Move on fast and instead of looking for the right person, be the right person. Make yourself unavailable and you won't beleive how they will find you.
2006-10-25 13:54:40 · answer #2 · answered by Logicnreason 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue to be her friend. As long as she has a boyfriend, nothing is more is going to happen between the two of you. :-) That also doesn't mean you get to try to break them up because she'll catch on, and then you'll lose a friend in the process.
2006-10-25 13:51:07 · answer #3 · answered by blueeyeskenai 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel and let her deside on what she wants and if she desides to stay with her current boyfriend then you need to respect that and be a good friend to her
2006-10-25 13:52:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else. If you two are single later on in your life, then you can try to date her. Don't mess up her current relationship with your selfish feelings.
2006-10-25 13:51:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her know how u feel and tell her that u understand that she has a bf. so that u guest want to be her friend nothing else and dude find a GF ASAP!!
2006-10-25 14:22:24 · answer #6 · answered by Lucy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on until she is single there is nothing more you can do about it so be her friend and go from there
2006-10-25 13:50:21 · answer #7 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should start to stalk her and never let her out of your sight. She'll eventually love you for all the effort.
2006-10-25 13:52:16 · answer #8 · answered by PS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another girl
2006-10-25 13:49:57 · answer #9 · answered by lilli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is taken, then she is taken. just be happy you have her as a friend.
2006-10-25 13:53:14 · answer #10 · answered by belle t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋