will not let you were things that you want to or not were makeup or even fix my hair
2006-10-25 06:47:36 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It means that you need to let that go before you find yourself in the hospital or even worse dead. Those are signs of a controlling and abrusive mate. You are a grown woman and no one should tell you what to wear or how to fix your hair. He is insecure about something and you will be his target or he wants something and can't get it and his frustrations are going to be taken out on you. I want you to be afraid so that you can see the signs of someone who is about to beat you. It doesn't matter how much you love this man GET OUT BEFORE ITS TOO LATE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I will be praying for you please keep in touch with me at sharethalove@yahoo.com
2006-10-25 06:54:19 · answer #1 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get as far away as fast as possible. That kind of controlling behavior is a warning sign. Many women who ended up in abusive relationships said this is how their men started. By controlling such things as make up, who they have as friends or if they can have friends, etc. This is not a healthy relationship. Leave now before the situation gets worse or you could end up dead. Sorry to be so dramatic, but I've seen too many friends where you are. Leave now. If he won't leave you alone, call the police, get a restraining order, tell anyone and everyone about him. You have a right to live your life as you choose and no one, not even a loved one, has a right to prevent that. Good luck!
2006-10-25 13:52:18 · answer #2 · answered by Asha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this just a boyfriend or is this a husband or potential husband? I would stress that fact that thats how you were when he met you and thats how your going to stay, plus you should be able to feel good about yourself. Sounds like he might be a jealous type who's worried about others looking at you or something not good dont waste your time w/this one if its just another boyfriend Good Luck!
2006-10-25 13:52:30 · answer #3 · answered by KIMBUR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that you are in an abusive relationship and get out. People are always thinking well he doesn't hit me I must not be in an abusive relationship... WRONG! Being controlling of you is one of the first signs, get out now while you can. Good Luck!
2006-10-25 13:51:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is trying to make you unattractive to other men. You should have a fling with another guy just to show him that he can not control you by controlling your appearance. Maybe you could do it with his best friend.
2006-10-25 13:50:51 · answer #5 · answered by Senor Pig 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is controlling you ---get out. You are your own person, do what you want to when you want to.Find a man that likes you enough to trust your opinion.
2006-10-25 14:04:07 · answer #6 · answered by Maw-Maw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put your foot down and do what you want to do to make your self feel good.
2006-10-25 13:50:46 · answer #7 · answered by trueangel121301 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is controlling,he might be abusive.he is jealous you look good and others will find you nice looking.dump his ***,he sounds like the taliban
2006-10-25 13:55:07 · answer #8 · answered by denny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LET HIM GO.... HE'S TOO CONTROLLING!!!!!!!
The next thing on the list is u beathing when him says breathe!
2006-10-25 13:51:55 · answer #9 · answered by stress77mulah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't get involved with men like that. Period.
2006-10-25 13:49:21 · answer #10 · answered by Brainiac 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋