Oh my goodness.. My dear, if you wrote this letter, you certainly have my sympathy. Why would you stay with a jerk like that???? Saying that you can't see yourself without him and you want to be with him only.. WHY??? Sounds like this guy treats you like sh*t. If I were you, I'd get some courage and "balls" together, and tell him off. You can do so much better than that. I know it's easier said than done, but you can do it! As for your question, I don't think it'll change that guy. Once an abuser, always an abuser... Sounds like he doesn't care about you as it is.. so why would he care about that letter?
2006-10-25 07:02:32
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answered by chicyuna 5
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After all that he puts you through you basically say at the end that as you've been together for 8 years it must be for something and the relationship should continue. I'm stunned that any rational human being could put up with such bestial treatment and still want more. All I can say is that if you're willing to go on with it then you deserve everything he dishes out to you because you've lost all your humanity and the dignity that goes with it. As far as answering your question as to whether a letter like that would change me: if I were a loathsome creature like the man you describe, your letter would merely make me laugh as I'd have no compassion and no feelings - certainly not towards you anyway. You're also being incredibly submissive in the letter which helps his power trip to continue, and his realisation that he has full control over you. I'm sorry to be harsh but how can you respect someone who has no respect for herself. You're pathetic, and it's incredibly sad to know that there are people like you around. Just one more thing: I've gone back to your 360 page which now has the quote "If you don't love yourself who will?" and you say "You're in love with a wonderful man". You're either a schizophrenic, completely mental or a glutton for punishment - either way you're wasting people's time....and your own. Glad you enjoyed the sweet and sour chicken.
2006-10-25 06:56:30
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answered by John P 4
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you poor poor woman, why did you ever let yourself get attached to a immature jerk like that. It's a shame you'll never get to experience what being in a relationship with a real man would be like......i sincerely feel sorry for you.
2006-10-25 06:43:15
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answered by jackalope_00 2
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I don't understand, there is nothing bad or wrong on this page. I love spending time with family and my puppies too!
2006-10-25 06:43:36
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answered by unknown 3
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What are you tell me i chlicked the link but i dont see nothing
2006-10-25 06:43:26
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answered by Lexie 1
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um.. my school blocked the site to get to the letter so i cannot view it , but if you can copy and paste it then maybe i can tell you.
2006-10-25 06:41:02
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answered by ♥PopLock&DropIt♥ 4
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did not see a letter-read reviews, but saw nothing i would change me about...
2006-10-25 06:52:08
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answered by phyllis_neel 5
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i only read your letter, check it out, maybe if you have your avatar to smile sometimes
2006-10-25 06:51:21
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answered by Frederick B 2
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yes it would
2006-10-25 06:51:54
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answered by GENNY 1
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it wouldnt let me read it
2006-10-25 06:43:50
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answered by Anonymous
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